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dream I had this morning right before waking up

lain · 2024-12-21 14:15
I had a dream last night that I made an actual fren irl and in the dream she was going to go get some food or something, I got scared that she thought I was weird and was gonna ditch me while she was "getting food" but then she actually came back and we hung out idk why but this dream means so much to me I havent had a real irl fren in like 3 years
Jet Black · 2024-12-22 17:45
>>7461 Here's my expert Jungian dream analysis: you are lonely. The dream means so much to because you like it more than you like your own life now. The same has happened to me before. I won't tell you to go socialize or whatever because you know that already, all I will say is that the only one who will make your real life align with this dream life is yourself. The only one you can rely on to make this sort of thing happen is yourself.
lain · 2024-12-23 20:09
>>7463 I really wish that I was a normal teen an would go out a lot with frens I'm going to an in person school soon tho so maybe I can turn my life around before its too late
Agent Richard Gill · 2024-12-23 21:37
>>7468 After the age of like 11 I had no friends in my teenage years. I really only started making friends in college and never any like "best friends" or people I could count on till I was 22. That is to say it's not too late and it can/will happen for you. My only advice would be too hold on to the desire to make friends and get to know people. When your in a period of being under socialized at first its brutal, But the more people you get to know and the more friends you make the more you learn about what you like to see in others, what people see in you, what things about yourself others dont like that you don't like either and can change, and what things make you you and that you don't care if people don't like. The people i'm friends with now are nothing like the people I thought I wanted to be friends with as a teen, my teenage self would be baffled at who ended up being the sort of people i like to be around. It will never be too late as long as you can keep curious about people, not take it too hard when a potential friendship doesnt work out, and be open to those you might normally overlook. The older ive gotten the easier for me its been to make friends personally, and often i find myself making closest friends with people a few to tens of years older than me. I think as people get older they tend to not judge you as much on your social faux paus, quirks, anxieties, awkwardness and more on values, compatibility in thinking, if you are considerate of them, etc. Some things that might make it hard to make friends as a teen will in like post 25 will be the things that make you interesting and make people want to get to know you. Likewise many character traits that get a pass or even make you seem cool as a teen, such as having a quick mean streak or being super nonchalant will become intensely grating to those around you as an adult.