Are women even capable of love?

Lainons, I’m spiraling. No matter how much I grind, how many stacks I pile up, it’s dawning on me that "true love" is a ghost—some unattainable flicker in the static. Every married couple I know is just coasting on convenience, not passion. It’s like women are wired to get bored, no matter who you are or how fat your wallet is. They just… drift off, tired of you, chasing the next shiny thing. Is this just the human condition, or am I missing some secret sauce? How do you cope when you realize no amount of crypto or hustle will net you someone who stays for you? I’ve tried everything—self-improvement, therapy, lifting, even those cursed dating apps. But it feels like chasing a mirage. The older I get, the more it seems like "love" is just a transaction with an expiration date. Anyone else wrestling with this? How do you keep going when the game feels rigged?

fool. real connections are made between families due to shared values and goals. they are not made between individuals due to the number of stacks one has piled up

>>93032 >— ChatGPT generated. Did it choose the Re-L screenshot for you too?

>>93034 the em dash scare is a red herring so people dont actually learn to recognize the entropic AI style which is now everywhere and only half a search engine away. once they write that line of code to replace em dashes in output with either - or nothing theyll shift the focus to semi colons just to kill any style from linguistic exchange. not that its wrong or anything. we should all be writing like corncob or something as its both anti and pro ADHD thought through language in a focused and long expression of the soul moving movement and that real soykaf is fire but all of this is on twofold purpose, primarily to slow down awareness of rot while vying for absolute thought control by enforcement of a controllable and malleable matrix of averages

>>93035 I don't disagree with you. I'm just saying no real human uses em-dashes. I've never owned a cell phone however, so maybe emdashes are a thing on there. And yeah, obviously they would heavily promote and propagate that aspect as an anchor to lull people into false notions of awareness, and then just have other models not generate that type of output elsewhere.

>>93032 "True". I see no need to interact with that word. But I have been, given, enough by a woman, that it has messed me up. I have been given care, and concern, and even money, technically, and time. And good intent, and great effort to help me. And even more. Given her emotion and change. Enough that I am, now, quite ruined, quite spoiled. It's become hard to let go. After having been given so much. If we measure truth by such hardness, then yes, it exists. Maybe because I am tall and used to be, apparently, somewhat handsome. Or, as she was kind enough to say, because I had a drive to understand things. Or because I was nonthreatening. Or because I was emotionally not too stable. That too may be an attraction. I am not going to deny existence of causes, attractors. And neither would she. Nor would she deny that her emotions can change. She truly understood everything that I could say. It doesn't matter how I call what I have seen.

Most couples just get comfortable so they stop doing new or exciting things. Part of the issue is the gender role expectations placing most of it on the male in a relationship to play the active role while the female is the passive role. Even though it isnt as bad as it used to there is still a lot of expectations that arent fairly balanced on who maintains the relationship.

>>93037 >I'm just saying no real human uses em-dashes. I used to, around 2010 or so. Along with ellipses and quotes. I do not remember whether I'd memorized the codes. (Tbf I wonder why I hadn't written a userscript for autosubstitution upon form submission. Maybe the development of a taste for pure text had coöccurred in me with the taste for minimal charsets.)

>>93037 >no real human uses em-dashes ...I do. :/

>>93044 Were I to use em dash, I would employ -- (two hyphens) instead as it won't display properly on my vt220 and I rarely seen teletypes or standard keyboards with em dash "--" is a saucepan em dash as it is ASCII.

>>93045 How....? And better yet, why?

>>93032 Women need to be pulled out of their loneliness prison, by a woman who has conquered the loneliness. The hatred of men is preventing me from doing this. The current mental loneliness lock portrays men as evil, preventing good people from applying the mental fix. There is an array of false platitudes which force loneliness. 1. Prevention of establishing communication via telephone number will prevent relationships from ever forming. This idealism is being taught by cybersecurity experts and has taught everyone to be afraid, this idea cannot be allowed to persist as a base idealism. This fear is only rational when a person is prominent. 2. Women are locked at home inside prison walls, they are afraid of even the internet, although if a woman is afraid of the internet they will flee from it. 3. Women are encouraged to lie and say to boys that they are in a relationship when they are not. 4. Women are encouraged to lie and say to boys that they are a lesbian when they want to turn a boy down. Lying behavior will kill a relationship before it starts. 5. People are taught to reject gifts, this will prevent a relationship. 6. Women and boys are secularized in groups, preventing communication with boys, this makes communication exceptionally difficult. 7. Women are encouraged to have extremely poor diets and be proud of it, this will make them extremely unattractive. Each problem is a massive mental barrier which may span between a 4 week fix - 2 year fix.

>>93049 The most dangerous problem of all is: 8. False AI dating online which permanently occupies a woman's relationship status, this type of relationship needs to be immediately decayed, if a guy is not present, you are not dating. If you have never seen him, you are not dating. Dating applications are silently extracting extraordinary amounts of wealth from people who are falsely dating.

>>93052 Online dating is a failure of modern society - with real life healthy long-term communities, there would be no incel or femcel problem as everyone would naturally build strong relationships as a by product from living in healthy communities, but since we don't have healthy communities anymore, everyone is overinvesting in internet identities. 90% of people use the internet dating for some reason... The internet is getting overun by AI so unless both genders come up with a solution then this species is finished.

>>93053 The opposite is true. If most relationships are built on nothing but the convenience of living a few blocks from someone having access to anyone in the world connected that shares your language you can find each other and not settle for who is down the block.