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/sol/ - solutions #2
Neuromancer · 2024-11-10 19:50
>>75958 Hit the bump limit, so here we are.
Originally designed as an adjunct to /vent/, this thread is designated for thinking through and acting on actionable solutions to our problems. Post pictures, updates, and ideas of how to improve your /hum/-related issues.
Past thread summary:
- anon ought to keep his options open and approach younger women
- we are more attractive than we think (?)
- Pedorov got a haircut!
Bobby Newmark · 2024-11-10 20:23
I am not married to the Grrl issue. But I'll get one of the first posts in here for general /vent/ stuff anyways.
One of the easiest things you can do to leave mental illness is to improve nutrition.
The mainstream program of nutrition improvement is broken.
https://raypeat.com/articles/
The general aim should be to increase the metabolic rate.
Nguoi La · 2024-11-11 14:20
>>85472
>One of the easiest things you can do to leave mental illness is to improve nutrition.
Ah yes, the universal prophylactic.
Yet Another Lainon · 2024-11-12 16:49
>>85232
>>85235
Don't overreact. Your hair looks okay.
Shaving your head would make it worse IMO.
I have a face that looks a lot like yours in these three photographs- maybe a bit younger looking but I have a slightly recessed jaw. I still have some indicators from females I don't know that I am attractive, so you can't be hopeless.
Rayman · 2024-11-13 03:27
Talking of solutions, is there any way to recover the cyberpunk thread that still existed this morning? Did OP delete it or has it been moved elsewhere?
Rayman · 2024-11-13 03:29
>>85586
Title was
>Cyberpunk, the dystopia we asked for
https://lainchan.org/hum/res/85506.html
Ivan Horvat · 2024-11-14 08:06
I can make small decisions in my life but ive never actually lead my life. I feel like I need someone there to make sure I dont fall.
Junichi Fujiwara · 2024-11-14 20:49
>>85644
How have you tried to /sol/ve this problem?
Tyrell Wellick · 2024-11-14 21:13
>>85587
the thread apparently was deleted due to spiraling political discussion
https://lainchan.org/q/res/8416.html#q12965
dunno how to properly crosslink posts so just pasted the url
Undisclosed · 2024-11-14 23:03
males only society is the answer.
Thats the only way to filter neohedonism out of society.
Dozer · 2024-11-14 23:52
>>85586
We need to create a Lainchan archive.
>>85656
>>>/q/12965
Unspecified · 2024-11-15 02:57
>>85659
everything's already saved at the Wayback Machine
Arisu Mizuki · 2024-11-15 03:07
>>85656
>>85659
Ah, politics. It's hard to avoid the subject when dealing with a genre as loaded as cyberpunk.
Now, I remember there was a cyberpunk chan somewhere at least a sub of some kind (might be dead no) it was entirely dedicated to the genre and was comfy. Does anyone know about it if it's still alive?
Faye Valentine · 2024-11-15 03:11
An archive is definitely needed too. I wouldn't know how this could implemented aside from having a /dump/ or something where threads are displaced. Not asking for a /b/ because this cool chan deserves way better than this crap honestly and I come here to just zone out and chill.
Crash Override · 2024-11-15 03:12
>>85660
>wayback machine
Suboptimal option to be honest.
Rinku plz?
Cat Mother · 2024-11-15 04:05
>>85661
arisuchan has been dead years
Yet Another Lainon · 2024-11-15 08:57
>>85654
No i havent tried fixing this issue
Netrunner · 2024-11-15 09:04
>>85675
then why post it here?
Lain Iwakura · 2024-11-15 20:05
>>85659
agreed honestly, i'm surprised lainchan doesn't have an archive
Cowboy · 2024-11-18 00:13
Every one says move one but how do you move on is the main question.
Anyone here have luck with it?
Just another Random Lainon · 2024-11-18 09:00
>>85774
Yes. I did this again recently with a subject I have a hard time getting used to, so I learned a lot from it.
Moving on from an experience relies on not getting bogged down in what exactly happened. Look to see if there is something you can gleam from the experience; if you wanted to make the experience positive, see if there is anything you can learn or do to make it one next time the opportunity arises. There will always be another opportunity to act in a better manner than you did the last time; never forget that.
If you want to move on from the experience itself, focus on how your interaction is either minimal or positive. If you met someone and things didn't work out between the two of you, think about how the other person will take your interaction in a positive light.
Other than that I cannot offer any specific advice without further knowledge of your circumstance.
Dr. X · 2024-11-19 06:03
>>85774
>moving on
Requires moving off your current emotional quagmire.
t. Chinese cookie reader
Unnamed · 2024-11-19 06:14
>>85666
Twat another one but I'm afraid it might have been on 8c or 16c or some other random chan. A pity, it was a cozy place.
Hitomi · 2024-11-22 07:17
ex-neet here. waging at a store 4 about a month and a half now, and havent gotten fired yet; just my balls busted a few times by my supervisor for wanting to change my schedule.
anyhow, i have money now, and i want to do things. i hate driving and my soykafty state, so i want to busride to either nj or new york and fuarrrk around.
problems ahead of me:
dont have a lot of money, or time to plan a trip due to my unpredictable, immutable work schedules
soykafty anxiety/autism. i know how to initiate basic amicable conversation with strangers now, and i know deep down how to respond to idle questions like "how was your week", but of course instead of being like "it was fine, how was yours" im the type of guy that just says "fine", then walks away since my brain on autopilot just wants to take the safest path
I dont know how to protect myself, or make friends. I want to go to underground music/performance art venues, and maybe meet a few travel buddies to do stuff with. this is a big problem because my brain is going to freak the fuarrrk out since im going way outside my bubble here, so of course im going to have to learn how to get acquainted with tetrahydrocannabinol, which i've never done despite being almost 21. I dont want to turn into one of those autists that become way too dependent on drugs being my "confidence enhancers", but weed is harmless enough; and its either weed or i waste money on a horrible trip.
Armitage · 2024-11-22 19:35
I just came the closest to being caught with my dick in my hand since I was 17... I was being really stupid. I would be astonished if my roommate didn't suspect anything.
Lains... how do I quit? I don't even watch videos, just hentai and AI generated slop. It just feels too good, makes the brain go pop. I know I should just wait for my girlfriend to be up for it, but I can't. Really hating myself right now.
Yet Another Lainon · 2024-11-22 21:02
How does one maintain a conversation with a girl? My ONLY non-work related interests are computers, games, anime, and music from the 70s. Not the most interesting guy for most girls.
Yu-ichi · 2024-11-22 22:32
>>85955
Become a manager so you can only hire women that (YOU) think you're going to fuarrrk but your a sped anyway so nothing happens besides destroying company by being white knight
>Not the most interesting guy for most girls.
Nothing is for most girls just move on
Nell · 2024-11-22 22:37
>>85949
>so i want to busride to either nj or new york and fuarrrk around.
Wanting to go to a soykafhole lol you must be autistic lol
Chani · 2024-11-23 19:09
>>85957
they're close, and give me the opportunity to actually do some soykaf. even the simpler pleasures like thrifting or urbexing is just not feasible in my soykafhole of a state.
i want to get lost in some podunk and maybe find thrift stores, maybe lose my virginity to a random stranger. i want to get high, loosen up and meet people, and have fun like a normal fuarrrking person.
wagie life is driving me insane. im a pushover at work, and if i dont have at least a little fun in life, im gonna fuarrrking explode
my social life is the same as when i was a neet, except now i want to kill myself even more
>you must be autistic lol
obviously. i admitted that in the post you responded to. why is that funny to you
Ishikura "Tatsu" Tatsuhiko · 2024-11-24 21:18
>>85954
You can masturbate, just do it less frequently and don't watch porn. It's simple, all things considered.
>>85955
Relate what you know to what she knows. Everything you like ranges from mainstream to disgustingly mainstream. If you don't have anything in common with whomever you're talking to, then relate some generalities about life to her and forget further conversations.
>>85970
>i want to get lost in some podunk and maybe find thrift stores, maybe lose my virginity to a random stranger. i want to get high, loosen up and meet people, and have fun like a normal fuarrrking person.
Your life isn't a teen movie. What about any of this is fun to you specifically? If you're actually anywhere near autistic then you ought to be able to answer this. Jew York and NJ fuarrrking suck desu
Pulse · 2024-11-25 00:12
>>85954
Stop jerking off or start raping. You'll see if your high T. I've never raped anyone. But had a passionate fling with somebody's wife (which I regret highly), I think simply because I was doing that no nut bullshit. And I knew she liked me. But something came over me when we were alone once. And she basically said "I've never been taken like that, it's the best thing that's happened to me, like a movie" and it was. I've never in my life lost control like that. And then we couldn't stop for months every chance we could get. Probably would've never happened if I just jerked off like normal. There are worse things. Like being a drunk or a druggie. If watching porn is your worse, just embrace it. It's just pixels. ALSO fuarrrkin'a I completely forgot. I decided to try to go out and get a fuarrrk buddy! Found the cutest spinner. But after a month of sex on tap my dick started spewing yellow soykaf. I had to get antibiotics. Luckily it was nothing permanent, but found out she was a total whore. Found out shes fuarrrked hundreds of men and several while we were dating. I dodged a bullet. Didn't get any disease. Still disease free. I'll gladly jerk off for life. I got a wife too but the sex life is in the dumps. I'm too big. I'm completely okay with jerking off. I don't want an STD. And I don't want any drama from girls. I embrace it and don't give a fuarrrk what anyone thinks about it. Maybe you too can stop caring. But keep a schedule. If you need to have a goon sesh, do it once a month or whatever you need to stay productive.
Elliot Alderson · 2024-11-25 06:41
>>85955
Your tastes as yours only, girls have other needs. Take care of your mental and physical healths, be courteous without simping, that should do. Girls enjoy small talk. It's boring but that's what they're into. If you show that you have plans and you're not shunning efforts and working on yourself, some of the girls will notice. At their core they want someone to take them by the leash, being petted and love, and given a nice dog house. I'm barely making this soykaf up lainon.
Junichi Fujiwara · 2024-11-27 20:36
>>85989
>I'm barely making this soykaf up lainon.
limp wristed aspie trying to tell others when they never been in a relationship themself lol pure cope
Hacker · 2024-11-30 16:06
>>85970
>>85949
Asa fellow ex neet I can relate to your posts, I haven't had much success with making friends but I'm older than you and probably have been a neet for longer.
I suggest you don't get used to smoking weed to do these new things, instead try taking a day a week when you have nothing to do to just smoke and relax, without overstimulating your brain online, it might help you cope with life and give you a meaningful break before another week of hardships and trying new things. I knoe you can't really rationalize your way out of anxiety but try to accept the fact that you'll inevitably fuarrrk up a lot before you get something right and that making mistakes is a very necessary and important step.
The other lainon that replied to you is an asshole.
Nemissa · 2024-11-30 16:23
>>86002
You're mad you waste your time without hitting anywhere close to the truth, all because the words used are mean and hurt your feelings.
Agent Smith · 2024-12-01 18:39
>>85470
>>85484
>>85569
https://voca.ro/1bFqPYfGfIIm
Apoc · 2024-12-01 18:56
>>86165
TTPS. Checklists. Run your house like a franchise where everything is checklists. It require training them. They obviously didn;t get these skills growing up. And if it's a women you're speaking of. They really create fantasies about themselves that they're better than they are. A woman's major existential threat is having low value. So you gotta treat them like a child and train them in a fun way, and don't talk about their image or that they're a dirtball who was raised by a garbage low-class family.
Nameless · 2024-12-04 10:47
>>85980
>Jew York and NJ fuarrrking suck
They have tons of experimental music venues. They also have comic zine fairs and stuff. They have stuff man. These states have fun stuff, lots of people, and I can actually afford to visit them.
>>86101
honestly I dont want to become a stoner/edible muncher. that's just not my personality, and also I'd like to be as frugal as possible. Weed will definitely put a huge dent in my wallet. Everyone in my family is an addict after all, and I can confirm I too have inherited addictive personality disorder from them.
>inb4 grow your own
Dont have an empty closet to do it in, and I dont want to spend hundreds of dollars on lights and seeds.
I dont want to be into any drugs regularly. I wish I didnt even need "confidence fuel". God why did I have to be born this way. Imagine how fuarrrking lucky you are to be normal enough to know how to talk to people.
Masami Eiri · 2024-12-04 11:44
>>86209
to be fair a lot of places have these things to various degrees and not all of them smell awful, not to mention the other problems jew york has
Trinity · 2024-12-04 19:35
>>86213
If I had the money to visit awesome places, I'd do that. ny isnt a good place to live, which I assume is the reason why you hate it so much, but its still an excellent place to find peculiar bands and art. AND IT'S CLOSE TO ME! That's why I want to go.
Even when you consider the fetid stench of garbage and hobo diarrhea, along with the undesirable residents of ny, it still isnt as unbearable as my state is. MA is just as miserable as new york, except all of our cool spots, like malls, restaurants, music venues, and so on are going extinct, thanks to our lovely tax laws. So... scratch that, it's even more miserable. Literally no one wants to be here, not even the people who live here for free.
藤原純一 · 2024-12-05 05:14
>>86224
why not use the money to get power ?
why waste it on pointless soykaf ?
Emmanuel · 2024-12-05 06:13
>>86225
power? what does that mean
Yet Another Lainon · 2024-12-05 06:34
>>86226
for me it is the possibility to break the chains with which mother nature bounds me.
BloodCat · 2024-12-06 03:15
One thing I noticed about myself is that I get nervous when someone confronts me
Like someone threatened to beat me even though I am the bigger guy height wise.
Idk where my cowardice comes from
Why am I afraid of confrontation?
Delilah · 2024-12-07 22:56
Is this thread dead? Can someone reply to me and tell me if my post is visible.
Bobby Newmark · 2024-12-08 03:34
>>85470
I have a rare circadian rhythm disorder and an autoimmune disorder that makes me break out in painful hives whenever my body begins to heat up. The circadian rhythm disorder is a real killer it statistically makes people permaneet. My family sees everything wrong with me and my life as a character flaw, and unfortunately for now I have to rely on thrm, but they are cutting me off. My last ditch effort is to try refurbishing electronics for money (I have skills+tools) while I begin process of applying for welfare (can't get ssdi because the years I spent in college wasn't work LMAO). I am really going nuts with trying to support myself with the electronics stuff since I can do that and sleep when I need to. All conditions are diagnosed, real, and bad they are just unempathetic and underestimate the severity. They think I can just get a grocery store job and survive like a normal person could. But I would get very ill from chronic sleep deprivation fast. If I didn't mention they keep telling me they are going to quit supporting me and kick me out since at first end of last october. I fixed up all the devices I hoarder and have them listed, but it can't be something to live off of that fuarrrking quick. Just me guys the serioisly disabled + soykaf family combo is a killerc
Void · 2024-12-08 10:53
>>86243
>Why am I afraid of confrontation?
taxpayer genetics most likely.
the government raised your ancestors like this
Mitnick · 2024-12-08 11:09
>>86243
were you immediately punished by signs of emotions, anger, fear joy? cause when you say confrontation it strikes me more than conflict, more like you vs. the outter world, that differenciates from you
Motoko Kusanagi · 2024-12-08 16:10
>>86243
>Why am I afraid of confrontation?
Maybe you haven't learned *when* it's appropriate to be aggressive. It's one of the most important things you can learn about dealing with people.
You have to know when it's best to be the nice guy and when it's best to be the tough guy (and when to just mind your own business). Anybody who is stuck in one mode all the time has a big disadvantage in the world. You don't have to be a bully or a sissy. Just learn how to respond appropriately to the given situation. Sometimes it's a judgement call, so don't second-guess yourself, either.
Mario Rossi · 2024-12-10 03:53
>>86253
it's a consequence of you being a neet not the opposite, you can fix that instead of crying about it and pretending that's a disability when it's just a result of your lifestyle
Miho Iwakura · 2024-12-10 12:41
>>86260
I think I have explained my situation
Someone threatened to beat me and I felt afraid in that situation.
I don't want to feel that.
Hagbard Celine · 2024-12-10 15:07
>>86291
It's normal to feel afraid/uncomfortable when someone threatens you. That fear is overcome either by suppressing it with some other strong emotion, or through different kinds of conditioning/experiences. I'm sure you can figure out what kind of things you can do in order to not feel afraid in those kinds of situations.
Shogun · 2024-12-10 21:52
>>86294
My first thought was to learn to box.
Drano · 2024-12-10 22:38
>>86307
Boxing is good, but there might be other martial arts more suited to street self-defense.
Gyula Kovacs · 2024-12-11 01:18
>>86294
You can rape your attacker. That would assuage your fear while simultaneously defeating the attacker psychologically.
Arisu Mizuki · 2024-12-11 03:01
>>86310
become a white supremacist and help clean the streets
Meddler · 2024-12-11 03:11
>>86311
White supremacists are just white niggers. Same thing, different color.
Turner · 2024-12-11 04:02
>>86312
tell that to Sweden lol.
If your are stupid enough to be believe it is just the color of the skin , you deserve to get bullied by ethnics
Chan Siu Ming · 2024-12-11 04:51
Imagine with everything we've learned in the last decade that some people still believe there is a "single human species" lmao. To the glowies, this is a fedpost, if we are not allowed to legally separate, expect extreme violence. Your so-called UAPs won't help you.
Demeere · 2024-12-11 04:57
>>86317
the only escape of this hell is by creating enough divergence and be part of a complete different species
Joe Bloggs · 2024-12-11 05:19
>>86318
Divergence will happen naturally globally soon enough. No violence required. Any currently existing power structures will be much too busy dealing with extremely ancient epochal divergences who absorb all matter for energy and manipulate light quite efficiently. Prepare.
Mentat · 2024-12-11 05:34
>>86274
You can't develop this circadian rhythm disorder due to lifestyle choices. It's real and diagnosed, and the stats show it's a death sentence because individuals with it are unable to meet deadlines, and start passing out at work. Not everything in life is a willpower issue or a character flaw. Now what I can tell you is I'm seeking work that won't make me suffer from my condition, and attempting to put myself to work should my search fail. I hear this every day from several people thing's along that line of that thinking. If you ever become disabled in anyway you will understand I'm right.
Leto Atreides I · 2024-12-11 06:20
>>86322
Are you just trying to pick fights in a thread where people are looking to solve their life problems? Anyways, I'm sure you know that's a personal attack, and that it doesn't seem likely you are arguing in good faith.
Eldon Tyrell · 2024-12-11 06:34
>>86315
lmao, come to america and you will see just how stupid white people can get. anyway, fuarrrk off nazi, you are not welcome here
Nguoi La · 2024-12-11 06:40
>>86324
>fat fuarrrk
>flag
>on porch
true american moment lel
Unsigned · 2024-12-11 11:38
>>86317
>Imagine with everything we schizophrenic retards have hallucinated in the last decade that sane people still believe there is a "single human species" lmao
There, I fixed that for you. :)
Nell · 2024-12-11 11:55
>>86333
being a "human" is like kicking dead whales down the beach, i rather try to ascend to something greater
Yuki Nagato · 2024-12-11 12:43
>>86333
>imagine with everything everyone has witnessed for the last eight millennia sane people now believe there is a "single human species" lmao
~
Lunch · 2024-12-11 13:05
>>86308
I think Wrestling is the best for self defense
Boxing comes a close second.
Lain Iwakura · 2024-12-11 21:06
Any adequately-learned self-defense discipline is enough for most street situations that don't involve weapons.
Masami Eiri · 2024-12-12 00:12
>>86338
>>86345
these
>What if if if if <O> told yew...
ISHYG-G-G-G[hn]ost Don`t dew THAT!
[unless immortal bushes in old vFulks hoImes count, but who`s counting?]
Lady 3Jane.. · 2024-12-15 06:37
Disabled the screen timeout on my phone.
Life quality improved.
The anxiety of a fading screen is gone. I feel more relaxed using my device and don't have to constantly tap the screen to keep it on. I can just keep a static screen instead of moving and scrolling all the time.
The phone is more like a small desktop PC now.
I experience the added battery drain as absolutely neglible, wifi activity drains the battery faster.
Such a small change but it feels very good. I recommend this.
Motoko Kusanagi · 2024-12-15 12:06
I need some advice regarding time management, I work graveyard shift at a hotel from 9pm to 7am, 3 to 4 days a week, I need to lift at least 3 times a week if I don't want the nightshift to fuarrrk up my health also I need to get a second job at McDonalds to pay for soe debt, I'll try and add about 10 hours per week.
So here's the problem, I don't even cook or do laundry anymore I clock in and clock out then I sleep during all my days off, I always skip lifting and meal prepping, so basically I've been surviving off of one cheese and ham sandwich a day.
How do I fix this and get into the routine I want, I'm always hungry and tired all the time.
Jane Doe · 2024-12-15 19:29
>>86394
If all you're eating is ham and cheese sandwiches, you either have or will have a severe nutritional deficiency that will wreck your health. At the very least eat a green salad with vegetables like tomatoes and carrots in it. some apples, oranges, bananas, some mixed nuts and sunflower seeds. No cooking involved. Your strength will come back and you'll feel better and lift better.
Morpheus · 2024-12-15 20:37
>>86401
Thanks I'll do that, I'm broke as soykaf though is there a cheap easy diet that I can do besides grilled cheese pasta and peas? Or am I good if I add fruits and nuts to that diet?
Incognito · 2024-12-16 02:28
>>86407
Fruit, nuts, and seeds will help a lot, but one thing you gotta have is a green, leafy vegetable. The cheapest one I know of is cabbage. You can buy "cole slaw mix" in a bag, which is just shredded cabbage and carrots, and munch it right out of the bag. Or just put lettuce on your sandwiches.
If you want to eat a cheap, easy, nutritious basic diet, try this:
https://lainchan.org/%CE%94/res/9469.html#q12242
https://lainchan.org/%CE%94/res/9469.html#q12207
https://lainchan.org/%CE%94/res/9469.html#q12208
Spike Spiegel · 2025-01-14 20:52
Recently the Spring semester has started for university. The only thing is that I have developed this tendency towards sitting at the back of the classroom, or else at the edge, throughout my time in university. This is fine for the purposes of listening and attending to lectures (I also don't like people being able to see my screen), but puts me a disadvantage when it comes to developing relationships or networking with other students. I don't use discord or any other means of interacting with them digitally, either. I believe I can overcome this inexperience, but I am undecided in how to go about it.
The situation became apparent to me because of a girl I have a thing for. Think of 90s Winona Ryder... very silm and waifish, with boyish, handsome features. I could have sat next to her, and I didn't even think to do it. It wasn't anxiety. I was just on autopilot. Physical space is often understated in terms of being able to facilitate interaction. It would be awkward or desperate going up and talking to her, and I have no way of gathering information indirectly which might inform any approach. Taking another persons seat (even if they are unassigned, they still sit in the same spot) would be considered rude.
Fortunately, I have reason to believe that she will be joining a club that I was already planning on joining. If that is the case, then I have an opportunity to engage and gather more information - like whether she has a boyfriend, or where she is from. She is in the same degree program, and so I can expect to be around her for at least another year or two. Our classes are heavily male-dominated (think engineering, math, computer science etc.), but I don't expect her to have a boyfriend. Many of the men in my program have greasy hair, smell, or dress poorly. She seems good-natured and helpful, but she doesn't go out of her way to interact with other people. If someone was going to date her, they would have to make the first move. The kind of men in my program who would be willing to do this are limited and typically already have girlfriends. It is still a good idea to establish myself early, in case some other asshole is going for the same girl. My current plan is to make sure to attend meetings and find some way to talk to her, then gradually escalate by asking her on a date. However, if she doesn't end up joining this club I don't know what I am going to do. I may have to abandon my hopes of entering into a relationship with her.
I'm tempted to just walk up to her and tell her I think she's cute and that I'd like to know more about her. Maybe it doesn't have to be more complicated than that and I am overthinking it.
Pris · 2025-01-15 03:58
>>86319
>Any currently existing power structures will be much too busy dealing with extremely ancient epochal divergences who absorb all matter for energy and manipulate light quite efficiently.
how will the absorbtion of matter for energy and light manipulation by ancient epochal divergences look like?
Chan Siu Ming · 2025-01-15 04:03
>>86394
think of one day, where you are planning the rest of the week including grocery shopping and meal prep. if then following through, this will give you enough energy for a week or two, building up stamina and clarity, to then leave the graveyard shift, which makes you sleep on your free days. its like always, you have to first go lower than low, in order to raise up again, because you need to get that energy somewhere
Tequila · 2025-01-15 06:17
>>87084
>I'm tempted to just walk up to her and tell her I think she's cute and that I'd like to know more about her.
A girl knows the minute she meets you if she would date you or not. You might as well cut to the chase. You don't have to be obvious. Just make some small talk and tell her you're going somewhere like coffee or a snack and ask her if she wants to join you. If she doesn't, no big deal. You'll find out right away of you're wasting your time or not.
Eldon Tyrell · 2025-01-15 08:58
>>87095
>You might as well cut to the chase. You don't have to be obvious. Just make some small talk and tell her you're going somewhere like coffee or a snack and ask her if she wants to join you.
I think it will hard to find an opportunity for this within a normal classroom environment. She usually leaves as soon as class ends, and never stays around to talk to the professor. That's why I brought up the club thing. In any case, I guess I'll find out next week. If so, I'll go ahead and do it. In the meantime, I'll just try to dress well and be polite, and not overly fixate like an autist.
Agent Smith · 2025-01-18 15:59
>>87084
A girl I dated for the better part of the year would often tell me about men who would just stare at her creepily and intently in class who she had even just one convo with. That they obviously had these rose tinted glasses, and that she couldn't wait for that class to be over so she could avoid them. Just don't make the same mistake, go for your shot and if it goes anywhere just leave it alone.
(In the end she ended up dropping me in a non chalant fashion, idk if there is any relevance there)
Case · 2025-01-18 17:13
>>87177
>A girl I dated for the better part of the year would often tell me about men who would just stare at her creepily and intently in class who she had even just one convo with. That they obviously had these rose tinted glasses, and that she couldn't wait for that class to be over so she could avoid them. Just don't make the same mistake, go for your shot and if it goes anywhere just leave it alone.
I think a lot of women who complain about creepy men are exaggerating or imagining more interest in them than there actually is, but I remember a gay dude who gave me his phone number and that was a situation where I could see where women are coming from. For instance, he found out who my parents and family were and would ask them where I was when I wasn't in class. And he kept insisting on it, to the point where my family blocked him, only for him to contact them on other social media. I even heard from a friend that he had been talking to people about wanting to have sex with me. Some days I deliberately avoided going to class because I didn't want to be around that guy. That went on for about a year. Before that, I had never even talked to the guy.
I'm not obsessed with her. It's more of a passing interest that I'd like to act on because I want to prove to myself that I can do it. Most of the interactions I've had with women were them approaching me or asking me out. I'm not used to being the one to initiate anything. I figured I'd strike up a conversation about our classes, what her name is, ask her where she is from etc., and then if she seems okay I'll ask her out after the club meeting (or class or whatever). Women can be crazy too, and I don't know anything about her. I am physically attracted to her and I've noticed a few things she's done which made me think she is likely an alright person (such as helping a few people in my class on their assignments), but you never know.
Cutter · 2025-01-21 00:38
>>85470
>-anon ought to keep his options open and approach younger women
>-we are more attractive than we think (?)
>-Pedorov got a haircut!
Hey I'm the attention whore from last thread >>85232
The new haircut is good a clear improvement, I also got a good looking friend to pick out a new outfit for me, but I still look subhuman, I know you guys want me to be confident and that's really nice of you but I'm not looking for empty insincere compliments, I'd rather keep this short and get some more practical advice.
As some pointed out in the last thread I really need new glasses I look like a chud with my current pair, any advice? I already picked the wrong pair of glasses once, I don't want to go through that again so if there's any autist ITT really into face shapes lookmaxxing or whatever your help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks for all the advice in the last thread by the way, I've been improving ever since, can't get the consistent motivation to lift yet but I'm getting there.
Jens Hansen · 2025-01-21 01:26
>>87238
you can always get a black girl and shut up with this
Unnamed · 2025-01-21 02:23
>>87241
A woman doesn't magically become in my league because she's black you racist goof.
Picking any accessory or clothes or hairstyle or face cream or workout routine is very important for me, I turned 25 and never ever got laid or even been in a relationship, so I'm way past the point of going "whoops picked the wrong glasses/haircut again" if I make any wrong choice about my appearance I get bullied even more because my face isn't that good, from an objective biological standpoint. I just don't want to get bullied by strangers in the subway again like I'm the fuarrrking Joker or something. So yeah I know it's annoying but just pick some good glasses for me please? It's not even about getting laid but more so that normal people show me basic respect, cause I'm this close to snapping. Also this board is where I've gotten the best advice, 4chan is like kicking dead whales down the beach for soykaf like this, just give me glasses recs and I'll leave I swear.
Cereal Killer · 2025-01-21 03:18
>>87242
i am not rascist , i dont want to be part of a set of idiotic subspecies , i want my own different species.
Have fun being a XX c1ck.
The Plague · 2025-01-21 05:56
>>87244
for how he expresses himself, he is clearly made for black women <3
Jean Dupont · 2025-01-21 07:20
>>87244
>black women are usually judged ugliest by people of every race.
Nope. It's Indian women who are the ugliest.
Elliot Alderson · 2025-01-21 07:26
dangit you guys please dont promote miscegenation
Technician · 2025-01-21 09:14
>>87250
it will happen with globalization, which is good and bad.
sage · 2025-01-21 11:06
>>87249
the one time i leave out a caveat...
tier list is:
high caste indian > black women > low caste indian
>>87250
he seems like a lost cause
Terzibashjian · 2025-01-21 11:18
>>87255
>he seems like a lost cause
I get that I'm unattractive but I just asked for glasses recommendation? Not for a racist tier list of women ranked by race, but you do you I guess
Naomi Nascimento · 2025-01-21 11:25
>>87257
yeah obviously dont date any blacks or indians or anything that should be beneath you
are you against contacts ? Idk never needed them and glasses always seem awkward to me.
How expensive even are they ? Could you get a couple pairs and try to see what seems to work just by going out with different ones ?
Hagbard Celine · 2025-01-21 11:32
>>87258
>are you against contacts ?
I wear contacts but can't wear them everyday or else my eyes hurt
>How expensive even are they ? Could you get a couple pairs and try to see what seems to work just by going out with different ones ?
My health insurance covers one pair, went with chad to the store last time and he picked the wrong ones so I have no choice left but to ask online.
I don't care about dating or sex anymore I just don't want to look subhuman, the social stigma has gotten so strong I fear I may get fired over it, female customers are unusually rude to me and I think becoming more attractive, if at all possible, would fix this problem.
sage · 2025-01-21 12:48
>>87257
lain i think you misunderstood
you aren't a loss cause as in "unattractive and unable to mate"
i meant it as in
"you are already sufficiently internally politically subverted such that who you mate with doesn't matter, you may as well miscegenate"
>re ugly, subhuman, whatever
honestly you aren't that ugly, real problem is inside not out
like i said before, quit worrying about glasses and haircuts, and worry about:
1) getting stronger (morally)
2) getting stronger (mentally)
3) getting stronger (physically)
do those three things, and all your problems will go away
focus on external crap, and things will just get worse
>re glasses
since we are spoonfeeding you like a little baby, you can get tons of glasses online for stupid cheap, i'm talking 7-30$ a pair
zenny, glassesUSA, whatever
>went with chad to the store
quit thinking that way
chad/chud/stacy soykaf is literally glowies trying to give you brainworms
remember, you are MALE, your biological clock lasts 20 years longer than a woman's
you can start having kids at 40 and it will not matter in the slightest. use that time to get your soykaf together.
Otto Normalverbraucher · 2025-01-21 13:12
>>87263
he can get a jewish gold digger and be part of the tribe.
even i would become hetero for a nice jewish devil <3
Dr. X · 2025-01-21 20:11
>>87242
>I get bullied even more because my face isn't that good, from an objective biological standpoint.
Your face looks fine though.
Roger Pollack · 2025-01-21 21:09
>>87263
>internal political subversion spoils the genes may as well just dive off a bridge
Im sorry I dont understand your logic Im afraid there is no logic