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Women live on easy mode
Armitage · 2023-06-21 11:01
I genuinely want anyone to try convincing me that women don't have live on easy mode. To the point I don't even know how to start this post. Pretty much the only thing I feel it's worth complaining is the fact you have periods and can give birth. Which indeed is terrible. But besides that?
Most women complaints are literally bullshit. Like the part about gettting hit on by creeps. Which absolutely happens, but the thing is you can just ignore them. There's nothing bad a creep can do to you in a public space in the morning. Seriously, what could they do? Talk to you and be annoying?
Now, there's the thing about being in danger during nighttime. Which is again true. But as a man, I wouldn't exactly feel safe at 3am walking down a road which has 4 crackheads peeking from the alley too. Who seriously can walk alone at night and feel safe? You can be 2 meters tall and build like a tank. You still shouldn't trust badly lit up streets with questionable people in them.
Then as a related topic is the issue of being perverts at bars. Which is true. But tell me then, why are you going to a place where you can expect to be hit on wearing an outfit designed to make you sexually appealing? It's kinda like walking to a black neighbourhood wearing some shirt with racist remark and being worried you might get in trouble.
And there the issues really end. It's different if you are in some third world nation. There all of the women issues are completely valid, but in the first world this is laughable. Besides these few annoyances, your life is on easy mode. You can completely fail in life, yet still you can find some guy which will give you a comfortable life. If I fail in life as a man I pretty much will suffer to my death with no chance of it getting better. Really, what as a guy can I do? There's never will be any women who will take care of me. The only person who can support me is myself. Furthermore, the world is made to make sure women have it good at least for the previous few decades. Since you are young, you will go to classes with female teachers who will approach the world in their way. That is quiet and bureaucratic. Notice what kind of qualities the classroom promotes and tell me that most men don't have trouble adjusting to them.
There's actually a reason why men's suicide rates are 5 times higher than women's. The truth is, as a man no one wants you. You are someone that others pick off resources from. No one will ever be there to help you. You are seen as expendable. Now what I will say is just a personal observation. But every guy I knew from high school currently struggles in some shape or form. You know what the case is with the girls? They either go to exotic vacations payed by men 5 years older than them, they work in some place that's outright pleasant to work in. Like a restaurant. or they live some quiet but comfortable life.
Unspecified · 2023-06-21 11:13
Being expendable is part of being a man
>Guy pulls a gun out
>"You better keep pulling that trigger 'cus if you don't kill me I'm going to rip you into pieces before I bleed out."
That's the manliest soykaf I've ever heard and the guy still had the bullet in his thigh, one bullet, in deliberations because he hid the body not realizing it was self defense. He got shot once, unafraid of death, and proceeded to kill the other man with his bare hands.
Women aren't expendable? That's a weakness. Can't walk alone? Because you're weak. Pregnancy is more devastating then fighting in a war? Because you're weak.
Everything they say topically is, "I'm weak, helpless, and reliant." As an expendable male, those three things are extremely attractive to me; She's allowed to be those things by the grace of the hair on my balls.
Cowboy · 2023-06-21 12:28
Even if this is true, who cares?
Mario Rossi · 2023-06-21 12:44
>>71656
Sir this is lainchan not /r9k/
Tyrell Wellick · 2023-06-21 12:46
>>71659
Failing men probably care. I think it's a legitimate social issue that will ultimately self-correct because the majority of men are dropping out. So it manifests as not caring about the world falling apart anymore. Thus the world falls apart. It's happened before. We'll be ok.
Nobody special · 2023-06-21 13:36
>You are someone that others pick off resources from.
Its clear to me that understand the ways that woman are also exploited because you have listed them
>They either go to exotic vacations payed by men 5 years older than them,
This is a form of exploitation. They lack the earning opportunities so they have to sell their bodies in an indirect way.
>they work in some place that's outright pleasant to work in. Like a restaurant.
Restaurant work is often considered some of the most unpleasant in the service industry.
>they live some quiet but comfortable life
In surveys men and woman report similar levels of unhappiness. One reason men have such a higher suicide rate is that they tend to use more lethal methods such as firearms.
Case · 2023-06-21 14:07
Tell that to my 55 year old single mother, who never got any child support and is still struggling to provide, but would do anything for her children.
You think the hot under 30 egirls you see online have it easy mode. You're probably right about some of them, but women are still fuarrrked over constantly because they are women today. Women still go through the same soykaf men do. Life is hard and will fuarrrk you over, man or woman. Before the industrial revolution (at least western) women were still forced to do unpaid labor and have a great chance of dying in childbirth.
Give respect to the women in your life. Raising kids is fuarrrking hard. Even harder when it's just you and the kids, no outside support.
If you're a middle-class amerimutt (or from any western country really) I can see how this can just go unnoticed. Your life is already easy mode. Go do charity work and you'll see what it really is like being human.
HELIOS · 2023-06-21 14:22
Dude, just become a "woman" and you will get enough attention and money that your failure as a man will seem negligible
Koos van der Merwe · 2023-06-21 14:32
Let’s not forget how most men in the United States are mutilated at birth and mocked for being upset about it. Oh, but mutilating a woman similarly is clearly evil, since Jews don’t do it, and federal laws protect them from it.
fsociety · 2023-06-21 14:44
>>71665
>This is a form of exploitation. They lack the earning opportunities so they have to sell their bodies in an indirect way.
This is some serious coping. None of them look really that depressed about it, and honestly, how could you be? You getting an exotic vacation with the side effect you might need to give ass every few days. This is laughable compared to most job men have. Which usually is some soul sucking office work or getting paid in peanuts for being near machinery which can cut you in pieces with one wrong movement.
>One reason men have such a higher suicide rate is that they tend to use more lethal methods such as firearms.
Well yeah, because if you are a girl you don't really want to kill yourself. You want to generate attention so that someone comes to help you. As a man you will get zero sympathy from anyone. You can be rock bottom as a girl and still someone will like you. If you are man who has nothing it's fight for survival at that point. Like I come from a pretty crappy place. When I look at people I grew up by looking them up on social media, the girls have pics from some expensive places enjoying themselves in bikinis. You can literally be average looking, have autism, even outright be unlikable and your life as a woman still will usually be OK. Having one of these bad traits as a man already gives you big challenge.
>Tell that to my 55 year old single mother, who never got any child support and is still struggling to provide, but would do anything for her children.
Oh no, there are women who have valid troubles in life. I'm not saying all 100% of women have it good. Certainly in some places around the world it's a nightmare. And being a mother is a hard job. But an average girl in a western country? Worst thing that happened in their life is probably them getting rejected by some pretty boy.
>You think the hot under 30 egirls you see online have it easy mode
I literally know some girl who used to live few streets away from me and she got her own place at 19 with her boyfriend. And this is in a country that has housing crisis. You can literally snatch an apartment by getting a boyfriend when you are a woman. This is just impossible as a guy. Can you imagine getting place to live just by being in a relationship with someone?
Am I mad? Yeah I kinda am. My life will never be certain. I always have to worry about the future. If I get in trouble no one will come to save me. And I wouldn't really want it any other way. Having it easy would make me feel bad about myself as I want to prove to myself I am worth something. But whenever I see some pretty girl with a smile that shows how little is happening between her ears I do get irritated. To these people good thing "just" happen. Like you want a house? Here. You want a vacation? Here. Sure, some might go through bad things. So does everyone. They still will be ok in few months/years while basically doing nothing.
Cutter · 2023-06-21 14:48
>>71656
>I genuinely want anyone to try convincing me that women don't have live on easy mode.
They do. What are you going to do about it?
Cereal Killer · 2023-06-21 15:04
Where does this feeling that women have it easier come from? It's just an inversion of feminism. They argue that men have it better than women in an absolute sense, in all or most areas of life, regardless of anything to the contrary. OP is simply reversing this, possibly out of resentment. It's a knee jerk backlash mirroring the rhetoric of feminists.
In reality, no group of people, especially not one that numbers in the millions, is absolutely better than any other. It all depends on where your standing. There's the single mother in a Caribbean slum trying to put food on the table and the wealthy #girlboss CEO who rails against men because social media made victimhood trendy. If your a man and your shy, your life is going to be more difficult than a shy girl, society tolerates shyness in females but it's frowned upon in men. On the other hand, if your a construction worker it's better to be male, women are weaker and there are fewer of them on a construction site where the culture is predominately male which makes it harder to fit in. It all depends on the situation, nothing is ever absolute. "Women" don't have it easier, some women have it easier than a guy in the same situation and vice versa.
Lastly, you never know what's going on in someone's life. That cute confident girl you see walking down the street could be a trafficked prostitute for all you know. Nevertheless, women have always been seen as vulnerable and in need of protection. They are physically weaker and more likely to be preyed upon and, unlike men, they get pregnant, which means rape traditionally had potentially permanent consequences.
Feminist grievances are understandable, but the way they talk alienates people and leads to backlash where people mirror their arguments but in the opposite direction.
Zhora · 2023-06-21 15:47
Don't turn this board into r9k please.