HELIOS · 2023-05-20 14:04
i am a 16 year old and i am addicted to porn, it doesn't even bring me joy or makes me feel good de only feeling is a sore penis, the longest i have gone without beating my meat is 2 days, i have tried multiple method of avoiding porn online, like blocking porn site's buying an alarm clock so i don't have to use my phone first thing in the morning, but after 2 days i unblock al the porn site's because i don't have enough will power to stop. give advise on how to stop this pls.
Yamaoto Toshi · 2023-05-20 14:09
sorry for the soykaf English, it is not my first language and i am new to it.
Dozer · 2023-05-20 14:10
>>70218
Eh, couldn't tell ya. Just decide to do it, and do it. To create the means within yourself, observe what tricks are occurring to egt you to do the thing you decided not to do, and build counterbalances or nullify them.
At least you have good taste. Shrug.
Koos van der Merwe · 2023-05-20 15:00
>>70218
>it doesn't even bring me joy or makes me feel good de only feeling is a sore penis
Have you considered that maybe you are just bad at it and that's why? The Steam page for jerking off would be full of negative reviews with 4000 hours played.
Anamika · 2023-05-20 15:04
>>70218
Slowly work your way down from more extreme content to less extreme to eventually jerking off only using your imagination
Hacker · 2023-05-20 15:11
>>70218
Have you tried substituting it with hentai, eroge VNs or erotica? What I did was slowly wean myself off that disgusting trash by reading more erotica and watching hentai instead. 3D porn is made to be addictive, it's overstimulating, overwhelming and let's creepy porno directors, tube site algorithms and the corpos dictate your sexuality. With 2D and text there's a bigger space for narrative, character with meaningful messaging or light comedy. You can imagine all kinds of sexual scenarios, the woman isn't some piece of meat and your not being fed stuff designed to make you feel self-conscious and make you emotionally dependent. When I made the switch to 2D and literature, I started using less and less and eventually stopped watching hardcore porn altogether. I don't consume sexual content on a daily basis anymore and I've got to a point where I can watch some hentai for the plot etc. without using it as pure fap material.
Junichi Fujiwara · 2023-05-20 15:18
>>70218
The longer you wait the harder it is to quit. When I was 16 we thought watching porn once a day was normal, but that was before porn became nearly as sick as it is now.
From someone whos almost 29, stop now.
Guthrie · 2023-05-20 15:37
this is pretty sad to read...
legitimately try prayer. doesn't matter which higher power you pray to as long as it's really important to you.
jerk off only once in the morning to get it out of your head. don't try to abstain too much because in your state i'd wager you're starving yourself and the outcome is the opposite of the desired effect.
avoid porn in general, jerk off whenever you can instead. and look up dopamine detox.
maybe there is something missing in your life. ask yourself questions and follow where the trail goes.
>>70225
>it's easy to quit an addiction bro you just gotta stop
Project 2501 · 2023-05-20 15:39
>>70218
If you really cant into "just do it" then do something more addictive but harmless where you know you get bored of it too. I.e. any game where you can nolive so you have no time for pron which will get you out of the loop long enough to break the cycle.