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I fell in love with a girl i have known in a party and i cant forget about her. It is my first love in the last 3 years, and i am kinda scared about how the feeling scalated. She is going two grades above mine (we are studying the same career), but i don't know how to talk to her. That day we met each other, i felt that the moment we were talking was special, but the next day i was unable to even to even greet her in the halls because i was alredy in love with her (and i feel like we're avoiding each other). Im nervous and passing through a lot of pain about the fact that i love a person whom i cannot even talk to. I tried to write a message to her, but she was doing exams and the fact that she din't answer me after a couple of messages made me think that she may not be interested; but, at the same time, i find kinda strange the way she looks at me sometimes in the halls. I don't know what am i supposed to do, i'm just waiting to met her again in the same place, but she didn't appear for a while (and i'm not going to parties these days). Any advices? should i keep trying going to the same places we went when we met each other for the first time? what do you think?

>>67186 I think you are going down such a rabbit hole and only God knows where will it end. >do not chase women, for your own sake

>>67186 Contemporary females aren’t worth it OP, they will use you and discard you once you’ve lost your value, whatever it may be. The contemporary meerkat female doesn’t care about your feelings, they treat the dating market like just that, a market. And weak, desperate males are the cattle. Listen OP, it’s your life, but I suggest working on yourself, work as close to the Rule of 6 (6ft., 6in., 6 figures) that you possibly can, “git gud” as they say, and then just wait and watch as the females begin approaching you. Maybe even this girl of your dreams’ll come to you?

don't listen to the incel here anon >>67359 if describing "females" as a "market" makes sense to you, then you're probably way too far gone to comprehend what kind of soykafty nonsense you're spewing. Talking to a girl face to face won't do you any harm, they're as good as evil as secure as insecure as you. The incel dogmas are just an easy escape from accepting the simple fact that you're the only problem and not society as a whole.

>>67364 He said men are what's on sale, not women. >you're the only problem Well yeah, a person who can't walk is gonna have a hard time among people that can. Should they be happy about it? Just because you can't see what's broken, that doesn't mean it's not there.

>>67364 I’m sorry that you misconstrued my statement, Rebuttal-Anon. I hope I can clear it all up for you. The contemporary materialistic Western “Dating Market” is one in where men are the ones being put on the showroom floor, “trophy partners” in a way to serve as accessories for a successful, independent woman who probably doesn’t even want them after draining their bank account dry. The currency that this contemporary female uses to “pay” for their trophy partner is attention, at the base level I simply mean this as giving their partner the time of day. Now, say for example you have an athletic, wealthy man who is tall and well endowed, basically fulfilling all the requirements of the Rule of 6. This same man, acting girl-crazy and desperate for a partner, will be off-putting, no? Well in reality, there is a loosely defined community of females in the dating pool (hopefully that term is less offensive to you), who will seek out these desperate but otherwise successful men and use them for their own gain. This is the only point I sought to make. I believe OP should not act so desperate and instead work on himself, and he will find that he will be rewarded for his hard work. If he puts the good intention to better himself into the world, he will get it back in the form of partners that will fulfill him and not leech off of him. That’s the only point I sought to make, and hopefully you’re less offended after reading this, Rebuttal-Anon :)