lainchan / hum

Are people really nice ?

wired_user · 2022-11-20 23:12
Hi ! People are a bad dream for me they even destroy you for nothing ! but, i have a important question, i should to be compatible with people ? even my friends have a lot of mistakes example: they want say " i'm better than you " they can say that with thousand ways, and i really tired of this life style ( that's a example, we have another problems too ) and in the end I DON'T KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO !
Elliot Alderson · 2022-11-21 02:13
You have friends. Do you know what it's like to not have friends? Even then you're still made of other people, just disparate ones who you aren't part of their lives. The longer you're truly alone the more your mind contracts approaching nothingness. The last person on earth would already be mostly dead. That said, there is value in being incompatible and disconnected and reviled. The same thoughts and actions repeated by everyone also means being alone. Friction is needed. I used to think I wanted to be respected and taken seriously, and I still do, but it isn't as important as it seemed. What you should do is realize what is important to you, and find and protect it.
° · 2022-11-23 05:05
>example: they want say " i'm better than you " >they can say that with thousand ways, and i >really tired of this life style See >>63981 We're all like that
The Phantom Phreak · 2022-11-23 07:05
Abandoning a connection-based lifestyle, the ubiquitous one in all of humanity, is the true way of achieving happiness. By minimizing the quality and quantity of your material possessions, friends, emotional attachments and associations (communities, ideologies, brand loyalties, nations), you minimize your capacity to feel disappointment and loss. It may sound empty, but it is liberating in practice. Over time, your thoughts and emotions will naturally calm down and your spirit will find rest, especially if you find the ultimate expression of selfhood and value within yourself. No other creator has ever been able to create another creator of itself, and it will only be by your own hand, through yourself, that you will be able to find fulfillment, success, personal well-being and a sense of significance in life. By abandoning modern thinking, feeling, and expectations, you have nothing left to lose. No friends, associates, cultures, or institutions hold power over you. Life is yours to live. Conclusion: Mystical psychology provides a whole new world of tools and a pathway to understanding our true nature and purpose as human beings. This is just the tip of the iceberg, Lainon. Stay strong.
Jet Black · 2022-11-23 07:12
>>64330 People are not nice they are selfish, fuarrrked up, monsters. But it wasn't always that way and won't always be that way. There are lots of good people out there, its just a matter of finding them and holding on which is difficult to do when your fishing in a sea of soykaf. You just have to persist that's all. Human beings are social animals. It is hard coded into us. So you should be compatible with other humans once you fond your type.
Neuromancer · 2022-11-23 12:12
i found family&friends unreliable not just personally but observing how others fared in my enviroment. Online is an obvious soykafshow of contrarians trying to be right and find fault no matter what. The one instance where i experienced way more good than bad was while traveling the world. Got lots of help from people i would never see again. What i think is going on is people forced to stay together get on each other nerves and then people feel justified to fuarrrk each other over.
Anamika · 2022-11-23 20:37
>>64336 >The last person on earth would already be mostly dead Top notch Lain tier solipsism >>64386 This is really true. I think people are so fake now because of social media. Like by inflation logic the more people in ones the life the less valuable any interaction with them is. >>64387 >your type It's hard to form social connections in meatspace when you arent into church, sports, tabletop, or anything like. Options in meatspace for uneducated, poor, landless serfs in the cyber distopia are limited to coworkers and narcotic use. The two are often related and often a net negative. >>64390 People fuarrrking sukk. I agree that sometimes it feels like the longer I exist to someone the more they look for reasons to bitch. As if just by noticing your existence some sub-process in their brain activates whose function is to calculate exactly what bothers them about you. Like stagnant water I guess.
The Oracle · 2022-11-23 22:12
Yeah they are pretty cool Talk about something they like, engage
Delilah · 2022-11-24 04:17
>>64386 I made the same experience, this so called normal life people live is a facade. >>64387 Most people are much worse than monsters, finding decent people is a hard achievement. Personally i wouldnt bother at all with people, its a waste of time either way and not a good one. Its far better to gain knowledge and skill instead of wasting resources on playing the social game.
Hello · 2022-11-25 14:59
U are loved and everything will be ok trust me hope u have a good rest of ur day