I Have Been Having the Hots for Cashiers as of Late

Maybe I have been delusional, but as of late I have noticed women at cashier positions seem to be a bit flirty or cutesy. For example my budyender was mentioning how we were Leos ans born thr same year and we were chatting and if it was not for other customers I would have chatted her up more. At Ihop there was a chick that was acting cutesy. At Lowes there was this one girl that seemed a bit shy but in an endearing way. I think I saw her again and tolder her to have a good night but she was going to say it first. Also a woman at work that was stretching and showed off her belly for about 20 seconds ( office work, talked about all sorts of cools soykaf and brushed against me but is married. Maybe I am being delusional but since taking dhea and metformin I seem to be getting my mojo. I might slip a note to the budtender or her coworkers but I am heading out of town so could be 5050 to work but shall see. Idk as of late I just feel a vibing energy with women and now I just need to ask for their numbers or give mine. Anyone else get to this point in late 20s? I have lost some weight ( 10 to 20 pounds but still working on it)

Their job is to be nice to you so you feel comfortable and excited about coming back to the store. A budtender talking about astrology, an IHOP worker acting cutesy (for more tips, probably), and a lowes employee being shy are all just normal things. >might slip a note to the budtender or her coworkers Please don't do that, slipping a note to someone at their work is creepy. Cashiers deal with enough horny men hitting on them and mistaking politeness for flirting in their day-to-day life.

>>58594 this, salespeople make more sales by treating you nice, notice everyone except maybe the coworker is a sales person. It isnt your "mojo," its called you are normal person enough for them to treat you nice.

what you replyers are missing is that OP's clearly interacted with salesvolx before, possibly even these same exact ones. But just now, for some reason, interactions seem notably different. >their job is to be nice to you sure, but do you really expect the volx at ihop to be that excited just about their jobs ? Not exactly the sort of place that attracts even motivated highschoolers in my personal experience. I know I don't get bubbly & cutsey waiters there, not that I go often. I don't really know whats going on for you, honestly reminds me of stories I've heard of i.e. men starting certain steroids. If that's not the case in your case then I dunno, sounds good though OP, you should probably capitalize on it while you can.

>>58605 DHEA is an otc steroid,so that would make perfect sense. I did drop my number off at a table the bud tender works at but she was not there. I would have given the night I saw her but there were other customers in line and I was a bitch. Ihop girl might be too young and Lowes girl I shall see. There was also a woman from my HR but I did not get strong vibe. I added Google voice to protect my ass. The bud tender was 6 hours away from where I live so I was not worried about ruining my water hole so to speak. Funny you mention this. When I first started dating there was a Russian girl that wanted for me to go for a walk with her but I was goody two shoes and I was dating someone at the time. I don't want to make that mistake again.

>>58605 Also I know waiters calling you Sweety and all that is to boost customer service and all that but they were different than most their coworkers. Could be someone taking their job seriously. With the budtender she went on about how we are leos and born in 94 and she does not see many 94 people. She seemed realky cool but if I can't get in contact no love lost. on my part.

One of my coworkers seems to be mirroring and a few other things but being very careful not to do anything stupid. Also ex got talking with me but I am not really pursuing it. I might leave a sticky on Lowes' girl table where she works. Idk not rushing out of my current relationship but pushing further towards leaving.

>>58594 >>58604 I don't like this lonely sanitized world where people can't try their luck with eachother for fear of offending someone. Apparently the optimal life style is wake up, go to work talk to no one. go shopping talk to no one. go home. even if you're in a public space like a park or a bar people will say to just keep to yourself and not bother people. What a lonely existence.

>>58589 It used to come and go for me, given that cashiers may be the only people my age I interacted with in a given week. Obviously even if not explicitly instructed or signaled by other means, employees recognize that they're acting as a representative and face of the store, hence they put on a persona where they try to be nice or at least "warm". However they're still people, so that's not always all of it. Several years ago this girl started working as a cashier at a store I frequent, and she seemed to be fixated on me. Very attractive, pale skin, long black hair, blue eyes, all the right curves. Also inward curving nose bridge, which I find very attractive for some reason. Anyway, you could almost see this invisible funnel where all the men would go to her line, and my health had failed and I was kind of losing my mind at the time, perhaps being in your own/another world gives the illusion of confidence, being focused, important, and being interesting, I don't know, and had lost my health as well. So I figured whatever, there is no way. I went to her register a few times and she acted normally, I never really did anything out of the ordinary, yet I would catch her staring at me frequently, she'd do other weird things if I ran into her elsewhere in the store. I'd be standing in line and I'd feel eyes on me, turn around, yep she's staring at me again. She doesn't look away either. I actually started avoiding her, like there's something going on and I don't know what it is. Felt like asking her, have we met? Like, do we know each other from somewhere? What is your problem? Never did though, which I regret. I was a fool. So it will remain a mystery. Anyway, I've developed a crazy person way of thinking thus many years in retrospect I have to suspect that it was basically part of reality rearranging to match one's assumptions and fixations. I was downloading the Ergo Proxy BDMVs over Share and watching them gradually over a period of weeks, and I found it tragically relateable and relevant to my life. I felt like I had been torn into pieces and cast deep into an inner labyrinth, so I was looking for the origin and solution for my own sort of amnesia and inner division, a lot of it resonated with me and thus I got really into it. The main character even had similar physical features to me (attached earlobes, paler skin, brown hair, green eyes), so if I was Vincent within my artificial sort of replacement reality, there had to be a Re-L. Then there you have it, a pale skinned woman with blue eyes and long black hair appears in my life and becomes strangely fixated on me. It's strange, but I suspect that really is how this world works. It's not a matter of changing what you're going to notice, your perception, subtle changes in behavior and body language, and whatever else, thought and one;s sense of what is real seems to directly affect reality itself. I was unable to make use of / squandered it of course, like everything else in my life, but that's also part of the inner allegory and symbols manifested externally. If I wanted to find a screwdriver I would be denied one until my hands had been broken or something, then I'd have hundreds of them practically falling from the sky. The structure of the whole thing is obvious and by now in this life, extremely repetitive. I suspect if it isn't my doing, then this place must be hell. I don't really have the capacity for that level of dissociation, fantasy, or replacing the reality my senses are telling me is "real" with my own reality, anymore. But if I recreated the ability to do so, I'd do a few tests. I generally know how to get back there.... just don't really want to.

>>59101 Nobody is saying that. Just pointing out that OP is probably reading too much into normal behavior of people who work these jobs. Likely due in part to his otc steroid making him hornier and feel more confident, even in poor judgments.

>>59101 >>59184 On the other hand, if he has enough balls to ask a girl out, perhaps he will succeed because she will see his attempt as being an uberchad who takes what he wants... On the other hand, rejection...