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> tall > good-looking > good social skills > funny > healthy hobbies & lifestyle > very romantic but hide it > none of the women I meet feel like "the one" What am I supposed to do, I am a solid 9 and I have had so many women go after me, I could probably have any girl I wanted but I am never interested in them romantically. I am so tired, does "she" even exist ? I dream about meeting someone like her every day, but am so scared I never will. Am not gay btw.

>>49856 probably too much porn and/or masturbating

>>49860 I do not watch porn or masturbate

>>49856 Hey, check out me: > medium height > okay-looking (7/10) > autism > unfunny / autistic puns > very romantic sometimes, generally cold and thinking > every woman I think is the one is a lesbian or is already taken Girls I don't like are the girls that like me. >What am I supposed to do, I am a solid 9 and I have had so many women go after me, I could probably have any girl I wanted but I am never interested in them romantically. Lower your bar, keep searching or give up. Or both. >>49862 Oh, start watching porn and masturbating then. Just a joke lol

>normal height >kinda muscular >very good at what I do >people seem to find my company pleasant enough >hot enough to get compliments from random strangers >lots of weird subby chicks throw themselves at me >too shy and autistic to express desire towards anyone fr though I think looking for ""the one"" is basically not worth it. There's not somebody out there for everyone. Find the best you can find and be happy with what you got.

I'm fairly average like most other guys here but I've chased girls quite a lot and got not half bad at it by the end. In my experience the more girls you get involved with romantically the less you'll care about each subsequent one. It took me a lot longer to attach to my current girlfriend than my last and were we to break up it'd suck but I doubt it'd be anywhere near as bad. One guy I go to clubs with says the same thing. Like most things in life, love is a lot less wholesome than it seems on the surface. Find someone you like after you fuarrrk them before you lose your ability to care. Good luck!

How much effort did you put into actually knowing some girls? I've found myself only falling for someone I talk to regularly about personal things.

>>49875 After breaking up with my first uni girlfriend I started clubbing a going out 2-4 times a week. When out I'd try to hit on at least one girl. Usually get turned down but sometimes they'd be into me back. The most effort I ever put in was when a guy came over for pre drinks and started telling us how much he pulls. I ended up challenging him to see who would score first. End of the night I was rejected over 10 times and walked home alone. As for loving girls rather than lusting after them when drunk, I personally started to struggle to do that after being messed around repeatedly by girls in my teen years. Ironically when I started messing girls around emotionally the same way they did me they started to like me more. My first uni girlfriend left me when I properly opened up to her too, and she definitely didn't seem like the type. So far for me it's been a transformation from seeing love as something sacred to seeing it as just lust with commitment.

>>49856 i'm nearly all that, minus the social skills (which are dubious) and funnyness (i can be if i'm in the mood for it). i also ignored girls which were apparently into me, not really sure. i just didn't feel like i would relate to them. now it's lonesome. the few friends i have do not have female friends. i'm also pretty alarmed about the possibility i will never find someone... as for your question: "the one" doesn't exist for people like us. personally i see no other choice other that dating apps. i hardly can picture how people meet and connect organically these days

You are most likely not good looking as you think. Most people vastly overestimate their looks. How tall are you? In majority of western countries around 180cm is average for men, unless you are not over 190cm you won't be regarded as a tall.

>>49889 I am 189cm, I did not use to think I was that attractive either but other people constantly complimenting me is what made me change my mind, I have even had several orbiters (male and female) etc. Although to be fair I do not look like chad, I more look like a fairytale prince or something. Someone once told me I have an "artistic" face, and I think that fits very well. >>49875 >>49878 >>49880 >>49867 I am not interested in sleeping around and casual sex, I want deep and passionate love, if she were one of the girls that really dislike having sex I would have no problem basically abstaining from it at all. I meet a decent amount of girls regularly but none of them feel even like worthy candidates, let alone like "the one". I knew one girl some 4-5 years ago who was into me that could have been "the one", but her best friend really disliked me for some reason and tried to keep us separate so it never got too far. >>49866 Probably if I do not find her within the next few years to be honest.

>>49890 >Probably if I do not find her within the next few years to be honest. There are also other things to do in this life than love, compassion and breeding.

>>49890 Enjoy the search, but I’m telling you the passion and investment you want you won’t find. You may want the deep connection but girls today don’t. Girls can’t love you the way you love girls.

>>49900 >You may want the deep connection but girls today don’t. that's not quite true. I have a friend whose a year older than me and lives with his girlfriend, they'll probably get married soon. They were both virgins before meeting each other afaik. My first GF also seemed pretty invested in me, which was a shame because at the time I was a mess. The common denominator there was that they're both super super nerdy.

>>49878 play the rejection drinking game... the rules are simple >everyone tries to hit on as many people as possible >if you get rejected you take a drink >at the end of the night, one who scores/gets rejected the most/the least depending on how you play pays for everyones drinks

>7/10 >post-sex, literally haven't cared about meeting a romantic/sexual partner in a year >don't feel obliged to reproduce I don't see the problem

Time will make that a solid 4. Perhaps the depopulation agenda is working...