fetishes

do you have any specific fetishes? Why do you think you have them? Let's discuss how fetishes emerge in the psyche and why. This is a place to talk about them in a non-judgemental environment. I recently discovered that I have a fetish for really, really hairy women... I like seeing a woman with hair all over, aside from the face. Hirsutism is a disease (with possible health effects) that affects about 5% of the population, they have to hide it or be pariahs, it's so sad because I think they're sexy as fuarrrk. Why? I guess because it looks very primal. A woman with a lot of body hair looks like a wild woman, and I like the idea of a wild woman. I have to post a pic because I'm the OP but please don't feel obligated to.

Ballbusting, probably because it was the first time I was exposed to something sexual (7 years old), it was in a random internet forum where a guy told his fantasies about a matriarchal society where man are kicked everyday, I was thoroughly confused and kept searching about it for a very long time trying to understand what the fuarrrk was that and kept getting exposed to more weird porn.

>>31315 I wouldn't call this necessarily a fetish, anon. You just like natural women. I'm a gay dude so take this with a grain of salt but the hair doesn't make in any way less attractive.

I think they are just byproducts of porn addiction by large, which I consider an disease.

>>31385 These are just the new beauty standards that white males are allowed to have

Just your average fetishes here (I'm a man loving women): domination, soft BDSM, kinbaku-bi, pissing on women, aesthetic foot fetish. Not in the crude way. Always beauty and benevolence. How did I come to these fetishes? I think I'm the kind of benevolent tyrant guy. I don't force to submission but I love when girls put them naturally in voluntary submission. It's mainly because my personality: I'm harsh but nice. Cold but loving.

Anything aside from vanilla hand holding is dirty to me. I can jerk it to the thought of an attractive girl (especially if she's a cute 2D maid and not fat/"""thicc"""), but actually imagining myself in an intimate situation of any kind with a woman just makes me really uncomfortable. I don't know how or why this came about, or if this is technically off subject for the thread. Pic related is my type I guess, though anything more lewd than this is a turn off.

I've always liked androgyny: tomboyish women, effeminate men, stuff like that. Probably just comes with being bi. But I can only stand crossdressing to a small extent. It's one thing for a guy to wear a skirt but otherwise make no attempt to hide that he's a guy, but full-on drag is an instant turn-off. Similar thing with women, though I can stand it a little more. Maybe because tomboys have a lot of the same physical traits I like in guys.

I realized recently that i have fetishized intimacy and affection.

>>31399 I, too, simply have a fetish for loving someone with my entire being and being loved in return, if only for a little while. And tender missionary sex with lots of eye contact and tracing each other's bodies and whispering sweet things. Absolute freak soykaf nowadays apparently So far it's worked out pretty well. Comes and goes. It's fuarrrking crazy how many girls apparently desperately want this but everybody has been chasing some kind of image of extreme sexual disinhibition and deviancy lately, as if they need to prove to themselves that they're empowered and forward-thinking and open minded, what the hell ever people think these days. People want to be unique and freaky, not sexual pedestrians I guess. But in the end, just about everyone (except the few genuinely twisted who have always been there) seem to fuсking hate it. People just want to be loved. And it's kind of heartbreaking to see somebody who thought they had built some kind of sexual or personal identity around all these other things just kind of... lose it. Lose their ѕһіt when they realize they still didn't know what love is and it's what they'd been missing all along. Like how do we let our culture do this to us? To see some woman in her late thirties cry because she just found out she just wanted to be loved is such a harrowing sight. The wasted time; the humiliation. The missed chances and submerged dreams to grieve—because now it's all too late. I feel so bad for us all in this whole stupid sexual posturing our culture has gotten caught up in.

>>31399 >>31400 >fetishized intimacy and affection. literally not a fetish... This is a "normal" human desire/behaviorright? I think that as far as a preference goes, I like tomboys (female). I also value personality over appearance all the time.

>>31401 I mean I think it's tongue-in-cheek to call it fetish, a way to point to the fact that these relationships have become kind of distorted and rarefied by culture, but yes. Tomboys are okay, but I still like them to be feminine in their heart or in their private lives. Just my personal preference.

>>31385 I had an expansion fetish before I ever watched porn. I remember there was a bonus feature on the Anastasia movie where a woman transforms to a dragon and I would pause the movie when her body grew. Why did this titillate me? No damn clue. These days my sexuality is more developed and the same thing doesn't get me going any more, but I still have a fetish for breast expansion. I guess I'm a freak. >>31400 yeah that really doesn't sound like a fetish to me, it sounds like being a genuine person. Fetishizing it would be if you sexualize it, which is what >>31399 might have meant. Also, I'd like to make a point, that the people doing random hookups or casual sex or polyamory(which is a soykafshow 90% of the time) are still in the minority.

>>31315 >do you have any specific fetishes? I like sniffing girls, tomboys and hands. >Why do you think you have them? I'm a man of culture. >I recently discovered that I have a fetish for really, really hairy women... That's not a fetish but not following a current trend. Once I peeked into my friend's armpit, because she had a t-shirt. She had short, dark hairs there. >>31385 >I think they are just byproducts of porn addiction by large Not really. I watch porn since forever and I have really basic fetishes like hand holding, hugging and sniffing. >which I consider an disease. Agreed when harmful, but when they're simple fetishes, I consider it just human nature. >>31398 >tomboyish women Yeeeesssssss. I know I shouldn't but I often find some lesbians more attractive than "normal" women.

>>31404 >>31372 I think you misunderstand me: I like women who are *really* hairy, much hairier than the average unshaved woman. I like leg hair, chest hair, arm hair... pretty much anything except a beard. This is why I consider it a fetish and not just a preference, I've always had a preference for natural women but never found out I liked hirsute women until recently.

Since you asked I guess why not Futas (not the gay ones) Blue eyes and blond hair girls Japanese girls Big breasts big lips hentai polka dot panties lolis/straight shotas (I am not proud of this, I hate this one the most) blowjob deepthroat/with pukes Giant penis vore bondage bukkake interracial tentacle hentai bimbo's cum in nose cum on eyes cum on hair cum on face cum on butt princess's There are more but for the sake of not getting derezzed I'm just gonna give a bare minimum, and I don't feel like typing as to why I'm attracted to them, but if you ask then maybe I may respond

>>31409 >Futas You, sir, are gay.

>>31404 >hands i always kind of wished i had a hand fetish. it seems so dignified.

>>31409 >bukkake >cum on X The sight of cum triggers your body to generate more. Because a primitive part of your brain thinks you're in a competitive situation so more cum will make you more likely to get the egg. So that's not very irrational as far as fetishes go.

I like to crossdress.

>>31411 You know, I never really thought about it that way. Kind of is. Hands are such expressive things.

For me: Pantyhose/stockings/tights Bondage Feet Hands in delicate gloves I think the first one was caused by girls I liked during my formative years always wearing them but I could be getting cause and effect mixed up as it was many years ago now. For the rest I always had a fascination with them although for bondage it was getting really excited at women tied up in films and the like and really enjoying struggling in tight spaces or against restraints. I also really really love legs but thats just a normal preference and not really a fetish.

I've the fetish for girls/women in wooden clogs. I like dr. Scholl's exercise sandals: pescura are my favorite.

>>31441 This is so specific I almost don't believe you lol. What is it about them you like?

>>31442 I can't believe the japanese managed to make sandals look good with socks this is the most tangible proof of japanese superiority if you ask me

>>31315 I really like rimming, especially female on male. I like some light male dom too, don't know if I would classify it as a kink, just some light choking, smacking the butt a little, etc... My ex had daddy issues and got me into that kind of thing. I guess I'm ruined forever now lol

>>31444 Different lainon here. I hate sandals, specifically japanese sandals. The way it makes human foot similar to camel toe disgusts me. I guess that's just a variation of foot fetish, I'm not a part of.

>>31445 lmao right? I hate realizing that I've been imprinted upon. Such is life tho

>>31451 I'm obviously not the fetishist anon who posted a woman in crocs, that's horrifyingly bad taste. I just think geta look nice when paired with a kimono. The tabi are just regular socks with a separate toe, what's so horrifying? Are you confusing that with the chinese practice of deforming women's feet?

>>31453 >I just think geta look nice when paired with a kimono. As far as you don't look down. >The tabi are just regular socks with a separate toe, what's so horrifying? I don't know, I just feel disgust and that's all. It isn't rational. >Are you confusing that with the chinese practice of deforming women's feet? Nope.

>>31442 >This is so specific I almost don't believe you lol. It's specific because it's my very own fetish. Well, I'm not the only one because, as you can find easily, there is plenty of web pages about clogs/mules. On clip4sale you can find nasty pr0n featuring scholl. >What is it about them you like? It isn't about "feet" or "legs", I think it's all about how the foot interacts with the footbed. I'm not into geta

>>31453 >crocs That's a pair of dr. Scholl's supercomfort

>>31457 I see you would love to meet my grandma Xd

>>31457 >>31458 >Doesn't like geta >likes off-brand crocs I mean it's your kink but jesus man

>>31460 >off-brand >Scholl Stop trolling, please.

>>31403 >Also, I'd like to make a point, that the people doing random hookups or casual sex or polyamory(which is a soykafshow 90% of the time) are still in the minority. I would debate that, where I am at, a good 70% of people have either participated or regularly engage in casual sex/hookups or polyamory. That being said, most of them are younger than 25. Over 25 seems to drop drastically and most are either married or have a stable longterm relationship. I actually have been single virgin for 27 years because most of the people who are interested in me have said they just want to have fun/casual sex and the other people I could never see myself having a future with for a number of reasons of incompatibility. All the girls I like end up being lesbians or have a terrible character flaw that makes a relationship impossible. As a sidenote, the last date I went on a date with a really cute girl, only to find out she just wanted to be long term fuarrrk buddies with me even though she was "not" in a relationship with her ex who she ended up drunk texting later that night and then blaming me for not stopping her. I hate when women get intoxicated and ridiculously horny while you are sober, and I didn't really feel like being the guy she kucked her BF with to make him feel bad. A huge turn-off (antifetish?) for me is drunk/druggie girls, which is soykaf because I like the "Alt-Chick" aesthetic. If a girl is drunk it instantly makes me not want to have sex with her. But I do think some girls are cute when they get a little tipsy (non-sexual, just cute) >>31404 I like girls with "peach fuzz" on their arms and neck, its nice and soft. I also like tall nerdy girls because they seem elegant, and short girls because they just seem cute, and even cuter when they are really tough or punk/type A personality. Sorry if this is too specific. Also pic somewhat unrelated.

>>31462 I'm not a crocs expert but Armani doesn't make shoes like that.

I like it when women have prominent noses and eyebrows. There was this teacher I had when I was younger who was from with a hooked nose and black bushy eyebrows and I always thought she was super hot. She was Lebanese, I think.

>>31465 I love nerdy short well rounded brunette girls! I would not call it a fetish, it's juste the way I love my girls. I love them shy and soft to so the new trend of ,nerdy/bbw doing pron is pure disgusting for me.

>>31465 >I would debate that, where I am at, a good 70% of people have either participated or regularly engage in casual sex/hookups or polyamory. where are you at? A college town or something? I mean, I've had a few tinder hookups before, one with a fat chick who had to take antipsychotics while I was with her and one with a self-described "manic pixie". Both made me feel pretty disgusted with myself and I'm never doing it again. >I hate when women get intoxicated and ridiculously horny while you are sober, and I didn't really feel like being the guy she kucked her BF with to make him feel bad. jesus that brings back too many memories of this one chick I knew... I resisted her advances for so long because she was such a mean-spirited person I knew it was a bad idea (plus I was friends with her bf) I would like, purposely play up my autism around her just to make it clear that I wasn't interested. >A huge turn-off (antifetish?) for me is drunk/druggie girls, which is soykaf because I like the "Alt-Chick" aesthetic. If a girl is drunk it instantly makes me not want to have sex with her. But I do think some girls are cute when they get a little tipsy (non-sexual, just cute) honestly stoner/hippie girls can be pretty cute too. I guess that's just because I slip in and out of that subculture though. And I agree with the rest of this.

>>31471 I can't stand stoner girls most of the time, but to each his own. When a girl (or anyone for that matter) is hacking on a bong every day—just have to end it at that point. I'm not straightedge, just never really had a lot of love for weed. >>31465 I also am pretty starved for a relationship with just like.. some fuсking remnant of dignity left. Like I still have relationships; I still get around and get laid or whatever. But it's just all so hollow. Is this what liberation feels like? The same as debasement and humiliation? Which way, modern man? I don't get squeamish about past partners or anything like that. I just can't look at these people without feeling sad all the time. Everyone I meet is so tragic and broken. Maybe it's me. I mean it almost definitely is me, at least partially. But I think there's also something out there that maybe we didn't understand and we've messed it up bad in the last several decades.

>>31442 >This is so specific I almost don't believe you lol. Seems like the kind of thing his mom or aunt or something might have worn during a crucial stage of his development.

>>31507 >Seems like the kind of thing his mom or aunt or something might have worn during a crucial stage of his development. No, try again normal person

>>31526 >No, try again normal person Sounds more like Freud.

>>31526 >No, try again normal person The implication being that you actually understand your own brain development. Much arrogance. Many defenses.

>>31568 > >No, try again normal person > The implication being that you actually understand your own brain development. Much arrogance. Many defenses. Meh/10.

Well, for me it's rape, blackmail, pain, consensual non-consensual and all kinds of forced intercourse. But I don't really like BDSM or torture. I'm just kidding, FBI.

>>31599 This sounds more like sex is a power trip, and it is used as a means of expressing control over others. not exactly a relationship goal. But to each his own. >But I don't really like BDSM or torture. the rest of your posts sounds breddy antisocial/psycho to be honest famalam...

I got a hardon for long legs and short skirts, plus points for boots and tights. When i see those hoes dressing like hookers i gotta whack later to them. If i had a nice girl id lick her legs up to her panties and take em off with my mouth, but i guess no biological women would have a use for me. Sometimes i wish i could just cut off my balls and dick to be honest.

>>31606 >Sometimes i wish i could just cut off my balls and dick So do I

Feederism / Weight Gain (realistic/slight). Trauma. I wish I knew why they emerged. There's a certain exploitative element to this fetish, no matter how much pretext of consent there may be.

>>31605 It can be done in a way that's ultimately respectful and wanted. Just isn't something people outside of it think about very hard or often. Kink "communities" are the absolute fuсking worst, though. Ugh how am I ever supposed to feel turned on ever again around those losers

Cocks that curve upward. Looks more dominant. Also high arched meaty female feet for similar reasons.

I'm surprised no one else has a pregnancy fetish. Other than that I'm super vanilla. Anal actively disgusts me. On a side note, I'm 27 and a virgin. I feel like I missed out during the formative years when everyone was having sex and now it's too late to start. Like, I've made it this far, I might as well become a Wizard. I just know the first time I try a tinder hookup it's going to end up like >>31471 Anyone else have this problem?

>>31642 I'm in the same boat, every so often I try but fail miserably. The lack of experience plus high functioning autism just makes it feel like trying to win the lottery. Its not too bad though, most of the time I can distract myself from the reality.

>>31642 On a side note, I'm 27 and a virgin. I feel like I missed out during the formative years when everyone was having sex and now it's too late to start. Preggo or obesity are gross fam but if that can make you feel more normal, I've had an active sex life with good looking girls and no particular history with porn, and I still developed a weird and specific fetish. I'm happy about it and it hasn't damaged my sexuality so I feed into it all the time, but I think many people develop fetishes because they've become deviant from watching porn. If you do watch porn, I'm positive that if you stop you'll go back to vanilla to a degree.

>>31646 its same as chasing the dragon with drugs. Any new experience has to be more extreme to sustain the high. Hence everyone who consumes beyond their individual threshold becomes extreme regardless of what its about.

Bangs. As in the hairstyle. I suspect it's because most of the women who supported me (Teachers and friends, mostly) during my childhood and teenage years wore bangs. And yes, finding porn featuring women with bangs is hard as soykaf due to the nature of the word. >>31643 >plus high functioning autism I used to think this was also a limiting factor, but it turns out you just have to find someone who will "tolerate" it (For lack of a better word). I have them ass burgers, yet I'm also in a relationship and have sex regularly. Maybe this does make me sound like I won this lottery you're referring to. fuarrrk if I know. I sure hope it's not the case and you can find someone, Lain.

>>31652 >Maybe this does make me sound like I won this lottery you're referring to Yeah thats what I mean, I've got a friend with assburgers who managed to find someone so I know its possible but trying to find someone who is both capable of tolerating it and is still romantically interested is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. The few women I've found that tolerate it end up seeing me in a way that precludes any romance. I shall continue hunting until I find it and stories like yours keep me motivated but I am not particularly optimistic about it.

>>31642 I got the impregnation/preggo fetish too, although for me the thing that really gets me is the lactating titties. Huge belly doesn't make me particularly excited. >Like, I've made it this far, I might as well become a Wizard. honestly yeah. I mean there's no restriction about your wizard powers after you turn 30, and right around that time a lot of women become desperate for a man. Work on yourself a bit and get confident, so on the day after your 30th birthday you can go out and get yourself laid. >>31646 >If you do watch porn, I'm positive that if you stop you'll go back to vanilla to a degree. when I was a kid I discovered a breast expansion fetish website. Mostly written stories. That fetish morphed a lot over time and I suppose I have gotten more vanilla but you're probably right that once you stop consuming pornography with a specific fetish theme, it stops being as intense if the fetish was originally brought on by pornography. >autism it's not that big of a deal. Plenty of attractive autistic women out there too, they hide it better than men though.

>>31661 I have no understanding of the brain's inner workings since I'm no psychologist, and I was lucky that I have always hated porn for various reasons, but I'm sure that the way you develop a fetish naturally is completely different from something you develop from watching porn. I'm sure of it because it's weird that you'd like something as conventionally presented as porn in the first place. Porn all looks the same no matter what it's about, it's made to show you the thing so it's purely visual while sex is tactile. If you watch porn you're twisting your sexual needs through this synesthesia. I think this explains why porn watchers become emptied out sexually rather than "enriched".

>>31664 >Porn all looks the same no matter what it's about, it's made to show you the thing so it's purely visual while sex is tactile. what about non-visual porn though? auditory and written porn are both things.

>>31646 > I've had an active sex life with good looking girls uh huh >I think many people develop fetishes because they've become deviant from watching porn I highly doubt this. I've always had the pregnancy fetish (not an obesity fetish) since before I started watching porn. I don't think it would simply go away if I stopped watching. I don't think my tastes have changed one bit in the decade I've been watching porn. Btw it's not something I'm ashamed of or want to go away. It's not like being vanilla is some gold standard we all aspire to. "Porn makes people deviants" is just some baseless accusation that people who don't watch porn throw around. I do sometimes think that if I didn't have porn I'd probably be a lot more motivated to date, but it also seems like that's a terrible motivation for dating someone. If I don't have a better reason to date a person than sex then I probably shouldn't date that person in the first place.

>>31665 I have no idea, but I'd wager those use more of your own imagination so they don't hijack your brain as much? This is where you'd need to make statistical research, check what % of people who are into written porn are addicted compared to visual porn - which includes audio - if those people who are into written porn also watch videos, etc. Which is particularly difficult because addicts are unreliable and they work against you when they see you're trying to attack their habits. See how the guy above makes up excuse after excuse to justify his decade of porn addiction. >>31694 Whatever floats your boat, after all you're the one who's virgin at 27. But you're wrong when you say >"Porn makes people deviants" is just some baseless accusation that people who don't watch porn throw around. Because there's statistical and medical analysis that shows how watching porn makes you more deviant. A study was linked somewhere on this board, too.

>>31646 >>31694 >>I've had an active sex life with good looking girls >uh huh To be fair, they didn't describe the sanity of said girls. Maybe they were nuts.

>>31704 >"active sex life" and "good looking girls" is too much to be real you just have to be social and somewhat good looking

>>31623 So you're saying... your perfect woman has high arched feet and a cock that curves upward?

fantasy stuff like giantess/mind control and a really diluted version of femdom that I doubt translates into rl. Maybe due to availability, lots of smut for those things.

just found this what are your thoughts

>>31736 Where's the femboys? I can't go one day without looking at a cute boy toy.

>>31736 what the soykaf is Mexican Sugar Dancing?

>>31742 some soykaf you type into google after lurking too much

>>31736 How tf are hands and BO fetishes more degenerate than prostate milking, BBW, robot, rimming, and bukkake.

>>31736 I'm genuinely offended that I'm put in the same category as the other people in my tier.

>>31736 >hentai is in the same tier as amputee, incest, and inflation Shouldn't hentai be in the normal person tier? Sure it often has weird stuff in it, but just because it can be combined with weirder fetishes doesn't mean it's a weird fetish in and of itself. >>31739 Traps are in the top right of weird tier.

>>31752 Actively seeking out hentai is weird in of itself. I would maybe have put it one tier higher but it certainly isn't in the normal tier.

I sometimes fantasizing on being a serial killer, cold and silent. It's not sexual (could it be in a certain way Mr Freud?). It's more the hunter game, tracking my prey and wait for the right time to take it, then using control and mind fuarrrking to put it under total submission. Seeing the fear in it's eyes... Let it keep hope until the last moment. The game of lulzing the police, escaping the law, acting in the dark, put an entire city/country in fear... Calm down cops I'm just a writer.

gosh I love hairy women hnnng OP you know how it is

>>31757 >>31752 I'd say hentai is a modifier depending on how extreme a fetish is. Basic fetishes are weirder in 2D but the really degenerate stuff only gets worse when it's for real. So vanilla hentai is weirder than vanilla 3D porn, but stuff like real scat/snuff/etc is more extreme than a drawing.

>>31399 Same as this one, but I also actively fantasize about being hurt by someone random and comforted by the person I like. I'd love to be comforted without the hurt part, but that seems extremely unrealistic even in my imaginary world.

so many normal people ITT. If you have sex and social life, there is really no reason for you to be here

>>31856 no everyone has to be like you some people have life in many domains, you could too

>>31739 >Where's the femboys? I can't go one day without looking at a cute boy toy. >>31752 >Traps are in the top right of weird tier. This classification is a bit off. Someone who's into traps is likely to also accepts gay, shemales, gender bending, and futanari, at least occasionally. I expect their word2vec distance to be close. And why hentai even exists as a separate category is beyond my understanding.

>>31873 >Someone who's into traps is likely to also accepts gay, shemales, gender bending, and futanari The whole point of traps is that they are convincingly feminine so the jump to gay is a bit further than the others in the list. >why hentai even exists as a separate category is beyond my understanding. Anime as an art style is all about painting the character's emotions on their face with the big eyes and universal symbols like anger vain and nervous sweatdrop. That's why anime tends to be popular with people who have trouble detecting the emotions of others (autism). Liking hentai could be a sign that emotions are a strong part of your sexuality. People used to call it demisexual before the term was hijacked by the 6 million genders and sexualities crowd. Another theory is that hentai (or any cartoons) are very idealized and missing lots of details so you kind of need to project a bit of what you want into the gaps. Which works really well for some people but most don't get it.

>>31881 Here's another take: Drawn images are clean. No real person suffers. Real porn has a lot of abuse&exploitation attached.

>>31882 >Drawn images are clean. No real person suffers. This is a very shallow view of the issue since it doesn't take into account the effect it has on the porn user, the apparently innocent encroaching of porn into art and its contamination of entertainment which is often children's entertainment. It's a much darker business than "it's drawn stuff so nobody is harmed" and that's not even considering the real reason why you wrote your post.

>>31881 >Liking hentai could be a sign that emotions are a strong part of your sexuality. Emojis are SO expressive

>>31882 As recovering porn addict let me tell you one thing. I think you're wrong. You have no idea what the whole "its just a drawing" mentality does to you. it destroy whatever credibility you have since it's not necessarily that you are hurting other people but you are hurting your head, in a sense self harm since your desires can bleed into real life

>>31885 >>31888 You didnt get it. Im saying when some people see real porn they start thinking about what real life soykaf lead the pron actor to take part in it because they saw the stories about people forced/manipulated into it. Images have no negative connotation so the same people will consume it happily. Its like people being more comfortable to watch a game of call of duty than footage from real war.

>>31896 This. It's more fuarrrked up if you see a "real" person get beheaded and get off on it versus doing the same for a drawing of the same. Both are weird but the former is far more damaging since it can't be tucked away as "fictional." The implications for their synthesis are entirely different.

>>31856 >so many normal people ITT. If you have sex and social life, there is really no reason for you to be here when I first started using lainchan I had no sex and no social life. That was ~5 years ago.

>>31763 thasss right. Glad to see some more representation. Now we simply need to convince women that they should grow out their pubes... >>31888 Sure, it's damaging, but the question is whether hentai is more fuarrrked up than 'normal' porn. The point being that if someone watches 'real' porn with e.g. guro, they are either more fuarrrked up or will be more scarred than reading a hentai. Also, it's a lot easier to separate fiction from reality when it comes to cartoons, even in the throes of orgasm. Being unable to do that is much worse than simple porn addiction.

>>31901 I got triggered by this poster in particular >>31465 >. I actually have been single virgin for 27 years because most of the people who are interested in me have said they just want to have fun/casual sex and the other people I could never see myself having a future with for a number of reasons of incompatibility He said he was virgin for 27 years, because of his own decision, he was able to loss it any time with one of his friends but decided not too. I dont have any female friends, I can't get sex even if i want to

>>31882 >Drawn images are clean. No real person suffers. >Real porn has a lot of abuse&exploitation attached. Sort of falls under what I said about details and filling in the gaps. But that's a much better way of putting it. Not all real stuff includes abuse and exploitation. Lots of girls genuinely enjoy the attention and money, especially gravure type stuff. Others are probably just good actors though. Feminists have this exact same fight with each other. If she enjoys it then it's empowering, if she doesn't then it's exploitation. There's no one size fits all solution I guess. I admit I get turned off when girls are visibly uncomfortable or distressed. I'm sure a lot of men don't give a soykaf or even enjoy the sadistic element though. >>31886 >Emojis are SO expressive Most people need some kind of anthropomorphized shape to get off but whatever floats your boat, pal. Pic related just for you.

I have something you could call phonophilia or auralism. I derive greater sexual arousal from sounds rather than visuals. I will sometimes listen to porn without actually watching it. Asian kissing videos are a pretty good option here because they really go over the top with the noises. I also really enjoy the degenerate side of the ASMR community which produces intimate and sexual roleplays. If you further need an example of what I'm talking about; https://soundgasm.net/u/skitty/Milking-a-Yummy-Little-Cutie

>>31764 Yeah thats fair enough, it locks you out of being 'normal' but also will never be as extreme as actual snuff or child abuse.

>>31916

>>31665 The other ones require you to use your imagination. In studies revolving around porn watching habits, IIRC women subconsciously gravitate their eyes toward the act itself (i.e. the genitalia and the actions/movements) and men gravitate towards the face and features of women. >>31723 >Smug.jpeg >>31914 >I dont have any female friends, I can't get sex even if i want to I just met a girl who moved in near me, and I talked to her and introduced myself. She asked me about the area, and I told here would show her around. Fast forward 2 weeks and we spend a lot of time together, and she keeps calling me her boyfriend to everyone she meets, she also sends me lewd messages all the time. I have intentionally not had sex even though she said she would be happy if we did. Literally just talk to people. Meeting her also made me realize I have a thing for playful cutesy smol grils. I used to only like nerdy tom boys and very fit girls.

It's a delusion.

I'm into women farting and having them be very dominate in making me sniff them while humilating me as well.

Oh great! it's another "unknown fetish with no reason" but actually it's just how humans work so the gene pool ensures its survival by actually breeding with anyone possible. Well good luck! I mean it's not a bad thing, mixing genes with something that's diverse to yours means there's much more chance for curing and avoiding further bad mutations. This is why racemixing is not actually a bad meme but it ensures that the human genome doesn't get abnormalities after one generation of inbreeding or in-race breeding when with animals such as literally most other mammals and laboratory rats it is very possible to have them breed for a hundred generations and not have birth defects. Humans fuarrrked up somewhere in the evolutionary/phylogenetic tree and must race mix otherwise we'll only get worse and worse bad mutations more common (e.g, Jews have racial diseases out of that).

>>31606 kong? >>31315 It's my view that fetishes emerge in a similar way to fears. The need to reproduce is an extremely powerful instinct, but it seems like it is made so powerful that it is a bit of shotgun "everything is potentially arousing" tactic designed to maximise your interest in reproducing. At the same time ends up with you forming sexual attachments to a whole bunch of arbitrary crap as a result of the arousal process casting a wide net. I say it seems similar to fears in that fear maximises your chances of survival by casting a wide net as well, this is probably why people end up with very specific and peculiar fetishes and fears alike.

I share OP's thing for hairy girls. Most of the girls I dated or fooled around with when I was younger were against shaving so I got used to that. Some though were REALLY furry, even having it on their chins or like a little mustache. Oddly enough this is why I find men unattractive 99% of the time, too much hair in the wrong places. On women though... hnng. Also, when combined with certain very femme attire like miniskirts, pigtails, lots of pink and girly colours, it becomes a one two punch of sexy that destroys me every time. Not so much heels and lipstick, and not all the way "butch" either more like a specific femme/tomboy combo. >>31652 >finding porn featuring women with bangs is hard as soykaf due to the nature of the word lol... even using "haircut" only turns up videos of girls cutting and styling hair in an erotic context.

to be loved i guess

>>31397 >actually imagining myself in an intimate situation of any kind with a woman just makes me really uncomfortable. such a goddamn virgin, pay yourself a hooker lainon

>>33323 You get a sexual turn on from that? I imagine you aren't the first person with that fetish. >>33767 If you think banging a hooker resembles an "intimate situation" in any way I'd say you're more a lost cause than the other Lain. It's also a great way to get arrested and/or wind up with a disease, not to mention the rather steep hourly rates.

>>31315 Tall skinny shy/sweet girls with pixie cuts/buzz cuts who don't wear makeup freckles for bonus points I have a huge crush on one of my coworkers who really wears the look well and is super nice and smart and I am going on a date with her tomorrow.

>>33786 That's a preference for a certain style which is fine but that's not what a fetish is.

>>33784 having sex IS an intimate situation, wether it's with a hooker or not, ESPECIALLY if you're a virgin

I dont know why but I like biting, I always bit people I trusted, something about using my muscles feels nice, I also like blood, but that's more aesthetic I believe

>>31409 Thats a very old one, try pic related from /r9k/. Many of the fallen tier are famous greentexts, like Ohio, floor tiles, contemplating dog knees, children of the trough and UTV. Im at least 7x degenerate tiers On yours, Im 2 creeps 4 degenerates and an irredeemable. I am astounded by how vanilla this thread is even most of >>31409 >>31694 >"Porn makes people deviants" is just some baseless accusation that people who don't watch porn throw around. It can and does make people deviants, if you call someone a deviant by their fetishes. You could debate that it is simply a trigger for something preexisting but it does pile on new fetishes. Its the quest for novelty. Make no mistake that I would happily be aroused by normal vanilla hand-holding then missionary sex, but with a laptop and a bed Im a certified deviant. In fact I know that people have masturbated to my artworks, both visual art and audio >>31882 I have also defended this view. >no chance of abusive/exploitative production except sore wrists >you can pay the creator directly, better industry >generally more artistic merit >less likely to foster false expectations of sex 2d doesnt pretend to be realistic. some idiots dont realize how 400% fake professional porn is just like western reality shows are, And that messes with relationships. t. U.S.A.

I was.. precocious. Coming to porn prepubescently more intriguing than nasty. Probably why I never really got hot and bothered by it: by the time I'd have the hormones for it, I'd already be inured to it. It is arousing, but it doesn't consume me. On the other hand, it takes ever more for me to be aroused. I started with the standard prepubescent fetishes: pregnancy, hypodermic injection. Pregnancy lead to impregnation, insemination, intravaginal ejaculation. Hypodermic injection lead to drugging. Near drugging, were other rapey porns.. Have I seen it all? Only rarely do I see a new sort of rapey porn.. It all feels so.. wan. By the time I was a couple years pubescent, I'd graduated from the physical domination, to really need it to be psychological. To really see their suffering. I'd developed sadism. Real sadism. Not just pretend. Most staged porn makes some mistake. Sometimes, it's bad acting. The most glaring flaw, is poor cinematography. For example, pretending the camera just isn't there, makes it obviously staged. Well, if the camera is stationary, it might be hidden, but if there's a cameraman that's just not acknowledged as part of the scene.. The point is, whether it's real or not, it has to look like it could be real: there can't be any hints at it being fake. I've seen maybe a couple dozen perfect porns. And the same one's never as good the next time. Eventually, it's not arousing at all. It becomes an intellectual exercise. I used to have more time to imagine perfect rapes. Designing and implementing a perfect rape, could give me months of pleasure. I'd go through, very carefully, planning each step, with a target of personal significance. And I'd be sure to design it in a way that I could switch out different details, even the target. One time, I even set everything up. Had arranged everything, and only had to execute the capture. Every contingency considered. They'd `run away from home,' off the trace of the earth. Never had the temerity. It's an expensive hobby, in terms of time. You know how work gets in the way.. My sadism's faded, from disuse. I miss it dearly. Or maybe I'm just nostalgic.. Of all the fetishes I had, only one has remained. Even the one's I thought I'd never leave, have gone. I almost didn't recognize it, it seemed so mild. But it's here nonetheless, something I've returned to time and time again. It almost feels embarrassing, compared with my old extreme sadism. I like to imagine myself as a woman. Sometimes even lactation or pregnancy. Almost makes me sad after that I can't actually give birth.. Yeah, I know, it's a really strange fetish. I can't explain it. It's like.. something. There's something backwards about it, too. Most fetishes fade with each use, but this one gets stronger and stronger every time. >>33792, >>33784 Intimacy is the sharing of closely guarded.. whatever. Be it a physical thing, an idea one shares with only closest associates, or some other class of experience. It would seem that one of you does, one of you doesn't, closely guard sex that you purchased. More generally, sex is stereotypically a closely guarded experience, but for some persons, it isn't. >>31606, >>31607 >Sometimes i wish i could just cut off my balls and dick to be honest. Same. Mostly my testicles, but sometimes my penis too. It's like they're just in the way. It's really annoying. Also, testicles are responsible for libido, which I'd gladly do without. No testicles -> no testosterone -> no libido -> no distractions. Something like that. I'm no libido expert.

>>33800 >I am astounded by how vanilla this thread is most people are pretty vanilla. I have a lactation fetish. I learned recently that my mom couldn't breastfeed me as a child because of a medical issue. Funny how that happens.

Sexy cars

>>31752 If we go by pornhub stats, hentai is literally normal person-tier in Russia.

>>33810 Hentai can be "vanilla". Really hentai can be anything, as mentioned above it's more like a modifier.

>>33811 It's still inherently a bit odd to be aroused by something that isn't a realistic human. You can have vanilla hentai, but is hentai vanilla? I don't think so. I'm not saying it is bad, but I think it's enough to call it non-vanilla.

>>33812 Realism is relative in art since you can draw any girl any way you'd like. While it's odd that one would get off to a girl who's styled to look like your usual highly exaggerated cartoon, there's plenty of hentai that goes for more proportionate looks. It's still drawn but there's more of an attempt to hybridize cutesy anime idealism with the physicality of a naked figure. Really "normal" porn and hentai aren't too different. A porn star, while a "real person", can only exist virtually for most people and can't be reached by most people. They're similar to fictional characters in that respect.

>>33822 What I mean is that if I show someone a picture of 3dpd, they would recognize a human (like if you looked at a mirror), while if you show well-proportioned hentai, they would recognize a cartoon of a human, not a human. Sure there's your point that a pornstar is really a virtual character who is hardly real to most people, ceci n'est pas une pipe, but 3dpd is you being attracted to (a photographic replication of) a real human which could theoretically be reproduced with if they were closer to you. You are seeing and being aroused by the illusion of an actual human. (Counterpoint: the amount of makeup, editing, body modification and professionalism of the porn industry makes it pretty damn fake too. It's a caricature of real, just like a very well-drawn realistic cartoon is) To be clear: I think 2D > 3D and that being aroused by drawn representations of people is a normal reaction, even if not vanilla.

>>31397 Maybe you are asexual?

I like yiff, because I am a furry, and because I love how cute the characters are.

>>33836 I like yiff, because I am a deviant, and because I love how cute the characters are.

>>33837 I yiff yiff because I'am a yiff, and because I yiff how yiff the yiff yiff.

>>31397 I was like this too until I was hanging out with a girl I met at a small gathering from a study group, and its started to get late when she just fell asleep with her head against me on a couch. The next day she said she felt really bad about doing that and hoped I wasnt upset, but she confessed she had not sleeped that good in years. About a week later she asked to come over to me at my house, and she fell asleep and just wrapped her arms and legs around me so I just left her there wrapped around me. It was awkward as fuarrrk at first, but the more she started to snuggle against me, the nicer it was. I started to give her gentle head pats and she started holding me tighter. We are dating now but are both still virgins. She also came from a very strict household and was homeschool/lived with parents while at Uni, in a very religious house with strict parents until now. Cute 3D is best gril. Are most women like this? Also Idk what do about sex? I like the non aggressive cuddling and vanilla hand holding, but I'm pretty sure she wants to have sex with me soon. How am I supposed to act unironically?plz no bulliI have no idea how to respond to these situations due to spending all of my adult years living like a monk doing nothing but learning philosophy and STEM and working out. How do I know if I have a fetish? Also is it okay to tell someone else that you have it outside cyberpunk tapestry discussion club? >inb4 just watch a bunch of pron, I am too busy trying to improve myself, and also my GF is the only person I now find attractive. I really like her fluffy hair. I love the soft texture and the gentle feminine smell, and just playing with it, and she likes it when I play it and give her head pats. Picrel is what I like 2D, and gf is like 3D version.

>>33848 this is a very cute story >Are most women like this? no, but it's not that uncommon >I'm pretty sure she wants to have sex with me soon. How am I supposed to act unironically? the best way to have sex is to not think about how you're supposed to act. Explore each others bodies, learn how she responds to your touch, let things come naturally. The first time I had sex it started when we were on the couch watching a movie and I started stroking her thighs. Things just kinda snowballed from there and it was great. >Also is it okay to tell someone else that you have it outside cyberpunk tapestry discussion club? it's a little weird to start talking about fetishes with someone unless you've been having sex with them for a while.

>>33848 >How do I know if I have a fetish? If you don't know, why does it matter? Ignorance is bliss - Cypher >Also is it okay to tell someone else that you have it outside cyberpunk tapestry discussion club? Like post above said, it's strange and possibly uncomfortable to bring it up when unnecessary and/or irrelevant. That's the case with most sexual things, at least in my society, and my society isn't even conservative. But if you're about to have sex with someone who you don't want to make uncomfortable or offend, it might be ok to mention a fetish depending on how normal or strange it is (hand holding in missionary? you can say that first time. want to try 69 position? maybe wait for the second or third time. want to lick her feet? i'd personally wait a few times before mentioning that. want her to wear caramel color bodypaint and deeply growl "khajit has pussy if you have coin"? maybe wait until you're sure she'd be interested at all, or maybe just never tell her) t. wizard

>>33851 What kind of fetish is vid related?

>>33850 >>33851 Thanks for the advice frens

>>33853 "making your neighbors annoyed" fetish.

>>31445 >My ex had daddy issues and got me into that kind of thing. I guess I'm ruined forever now lol IKTF Had a brief relationship with a woman who liked rimming (giving and receiving), taking anal, giving deepthroat/getting facefucked, and squirted with every orgasm. After she broke things off, I wondered if I would ever get to experience something like that again. Three things: First, if you attracted one woman like that, you're probably just attractive to women who are into that kind of stuff. Since that relationship, every woman I've been with has had at least some of those qualities. There are just a lot of kinky women out there. Second, every sexual partner can bring something new to the bedroom. I had a brief fling with a woman who was pretty vanilla, except she was into DDLG stuff which I hadn't tried before. Drove my dick crazy. Now I'm in a relationship now with a woman who is a total sub and vastly prefers to not take an active role. However, her body is amazingly sensitive and she is into being choked and spanked/slapped hard. I can make her orgasm just by tweaking or biting/sucking on the nipples of her huge tits, by choking her, or biting her ear. I've also trained her to squirt, and these days she will usually leave at least a wet spot, and sometimes a huge puddle while I'm fuarrrking her. And I'm planning on easing her into anal. So in some respects my sex life has diminished, but in other respects it has improved. Which brings me to the third thing. If you can help it, have an open mind and don't fixate. Try not to have "a fetish," but rather so many fetishes (including a full appreciation for vanilla) that you will always find something to enjoy, provided your partner enjoys sex and likes to explore things.

>>33853 >What kind of fetish is vid related? mein

>>33767 No thanks, too disgusting for many reasons. If that's good enough for you, then have at, but I can't imagine paying money for anything like that. >>33835 I've seriously begun to consider this, actually, though I'm not sure how identifying under this label would change my life in any way. I suppose it'd give me an easy way to describe my feelings to any future romantic partners, but I don't exactly have many of those prospects in my life at the moment. That isn't to say I mind my situation, just that I'm in the sort of position where it seems nothing I do makes a large difference, so I'm basically fine just going on living for myself. >>33848 This is really wholesome, I'm glad you've found someone like this. Maybe I'm similar in that my feelings will change when I've met someone like that, but as previously mentioned, it's not likely anything like that will happen for me anytime soon, and I'm pretty much okay with that. Also, >spending all of my adult years living like a monk doing nothing but learning philosophy and STEM and working out >tfw I've found my doppelganger Now I really hope things work out with you and your gf. Just don't be an idiot and take bad advice from the internet.

>>33868 I knew what website that was from literally after the first second.

>>33867 I can second this, if you attract one sub you will probably attract another. My first relationship got kinky though and I must say, it's very important that you don't let that stuff leave the bedroom.

Gynophagia. I know it's disgusting but I've been burned a lot by misandry from women (and for that matter men too) a lot in my life and it helps me cope *sigh*

>>33812 I mean, the same argument goes for little bright dots of color on a flat surface. You're literally being aroused by bits. Except you're not. You're being aroused at the image of sexiness in your mind, which the data merely suggest.

>>33851 I mean, my policy is to get it all out up front, but without pressing the issue. Most often, they're not interested, but we have our fun a few times and go separate ways. Sometimes, they're fine with it and we have lots of fun. Rarely, they're so averse to it we don't even get to have our fun once. I think the sometimes immediate lots of fun outweighs the rare no fun at all.

>>33955 That's absolutely right, which is why I don't see it as a bad thing. I just think the image of a cartoon is on the other peak of the uncanny valley to the image of a human. There is no illusion of it being the sight of real person. imagine being aroused by patterns of photons

nice ass wrapped in leather pants/skirt will never not make me hard as diamonds

I like sissy soykaf and putting dragon dildos in my ass. and i consider myself a straight guy who likes typical vanilla fetishes. but i feel like expressing my feminine side i comes out full force and i can be something else.

>>34359 your hormones have been fuarrrked with. typical in this soy society. i feel sorry for you.

>>34360 i mean it wouldn't surprise me.

>>34361 doesn't it bother you that it's not the real you? that you've been engineered to be more feminine than masculine? like a rat in a lab? naturally you should want to dominate a woman, take her, breed her, those are normal, masculine fantasies but instead in your private time you want to be the woman that gets taken and bred. i think it's absolutely horrific. imagine how weak humanity will be in a couple more decades when this decline keeps continuing. imagine how easily malleable and agreeable we will all be to the rule makers, as our lives and freedoms continue to erode and everyones too much of a estrogen overdosed wimp to even make eye contact with eachother. uncle ted was right.

>>34359 >>34360 I'm a straight chad and sometimes I like to play with my prostate, I mean without the sissy fetish or any gayness. Just like the sensation. But I wouldn't enjoy to share it, even with a woman, it's just my typical me-with-me moment. Nobody can touch it except me.

>>34362 >falling into alex jones memes Soyciety isn't real. How do you explain females becoming gay if soy only affect men? (xeno)Estrogen actually does not do that much harm unless you have E receptive cancers or have prior disease. The truth is even plant estrogen can be converted by males and especially body builders into super testosterone but that probably depends if you have a damaged liver or how your brain tries to use these chemicals. Also, sexuality and fetishes are the greatest delusion which ensures mankind to procreate. Think if there's none of those multiple "feel good" chemicals released by the brain during intercourse, this means extinction. Also, if you were to get a severe concussion enough to give you amnesia, it's possible to lose and forget about your delusional fetishes and delusional sexuality. It's all in the mind.

>>34365 As demiurge designed...

>>34360 >not putting stuff in your ass when you masturbate you're really missing out man

>>34363 >chad >pleasuring yourself alone in the dark watching other people fuarrrk on a screen okay then

>>34365 All in the mind... lulz

>>34369 >pleasuring yourself alone in the dark watching other people fuarrrk on a screen Nope. Generally comfy light, without watching porn. Just feeling the pleasure. It's not something I do a lot (at least 1 ~ 3 times a year) and I don't feel "ashamed" nor "feminized" by doing this. Still Chad when I pound my women and double Chad for my perfectly balanced sexuality.

>>34362 >naturally you should want to dominate a woman, take her, breed her, those are normal I do i really find women attractive. I used to fuarrrk like crazy back in my highschool days now i really don't care plus i think i have sexual trauma from my last relationship and im just not liking womens bullshit right now so i dont give a fuarrrk anymore.

>>33786 What is this "date" thing Lain, care to elaborate?

>>34379 Man I understand what you feel.

>>34363 >But I wouldn't enjoy to share it, even with a woman, it's just my typical me-with-me moment. Nobody can touch it except me. It hurts a lot when you do it wrong. So ironically you need to some incredibly kind and empathetic to do femdom right.

>>34399 As I say earlier it's not something I want to share. And I'm a dominant who like to keep women in control. For the hurting sensation, just remember it's not the size who matter but the shape. You could use just a finger and found the P point.

>>34405 Are you circumsized? It removes a lot of the pleasure from sex if you are. Encouraging more debased acts to enjoy yourself; like anal, blowjobs, and sticking your own finger up your ass. Most likely the only reason why the practice continues in the american world, to get people losing stimulation in their cocks and needing to become more degenerate in the process to get off. Blowjobs were popularized from pornography in the US after all.

>>34431 ...fellatio is literally as old as humanity, probably older. The US is just full of weird puritans who don't understand sex.

>>34431 >neurosuggesting I somehow can't get pleasure without something up my ass because I'm missing a bit of skin of the tip of my dick Get the fuarrrk outta here. I enjoy other forms of touch more than erectile stimulation anyway.

>>34434 So I was right, cool.

All fetishes are introspective failure. Your cognition veers in and out of darkness, losing the causal connection between the initial stimulus and desired outcome. Pleasure needs the feedback of having an effect on the world - to be more than a sensation for its own sake - or else it ever drifts towards degeneracy and depression.

>>34436 close...low impact romantic cuddling with hand holding

I swear I must have a fetish for minor dental issues. So many cuties with buckteeth and missing teeth.

>>34475 You must love Japanese girls, they find fuarrrked up teeth to be endearing.

>>34431 >Are you circumsized? I'm not. And as I said earlier P stimulation is something I do very rarely. So most of the time it's normal sex/masturbation. I discovered P stimuli as I discovered masturbation, it was not something someone tell me nor I listen/read somewhere, just the natural way I discovered pleasure in my early ages.

>>34481 I have found my people.

>>34362 >doesn't it bother you that it's not the real you? that you've been engineered to be more feminine than masculine? like a rat in a lab? It doesn't bother me, because it is the real me. I'm not sure how you came to the conclusion that I've been engineered. I mean, I have: I've engineered myself to be as perfect---according to my own ideas---as possible. >instead in your private time you want to be the woman that gets taken and bred. i think it's absolutely horrific. imagine how weak humanity will be in a couple more decades when this decline keeps continuing. imagine how easily malleable and agreeable we will all be to the rule makers, as our lives and freedoms continue to erode and everyones too much of a estrogen overdosed wimp to even make eye contact with eachother. Dude.. your fantasy's reallly going wild here. So you have some feelings about feminization, but why are you adding all these strange details to it? For one thing, womanhood has nothing to do with servility. Imagine how weak someone's mind would have to be if they can't even imagine a woman as anything other than a slave. Another thing.. you're saying that everyone's being put on estrogen: Where the fuarrrk are you, and why the hell didn't you tell me how to get a visa 5 years ago? Just kidding, of course---but seriously, what's up with your fixation on estrogen? Anyway, you might want to think about what's causing these fantasies that you dislike so much. Or not! It's not like I can force someone like you to think one way or another. It's just something you might explore. If the cause of your fantasies is already inside you, you'd have to try to find it, to root it out, or to enhance it---whatever you want to do with it, being aware of it will help, and can't hurt. >>34399 >>But I wouldn't enjoy to share it, even with a woman, it's just my typical me-with-me moment. Nobody can touch it except me. >It hurts a lot when you do it wrong. So ironically you need to some incredibly kind and empathetic to do femdom right. I don't get it. How did your mind get from prostate stimulation to domination?

>>34500 >I don't get it. How did your mind get from prostate stimulation to domination? His dominant boyfriend (real one or the one he fantasizes about - does not matter) loves to stimulate his prostate while fisting.

>>34500 >I don't get it. How did your mind get from prostate stimulation to domination? Via AGP. The only reason a straight man would want anything up his ass is to be "degraded" into a submissive, female role. The "sensation" is also basically teasing / orgasm denial because your prostrate is what pumps the cum during an orgasm. Having something inside your ass poking it and rubbing against it creates this confused feeling where cum squirts or dribbles out without an orgasm and you feel like you're going to cum but can't. If you keep going long enough you can orgasm just from prostrate stimulation but it takes patience and is frustrating because you feel like you're on the edge but then just get stuck there for ages and ages instead of getting the instant relief that men are used to.

>>34518 >poking it and rubbing against it creates this confused feeling where cum squirts or dribbles out Out of your penis* Not out of your ass, that would be fuarrrked up.

>>34518 I told you are very familiar with that sensation

>>34516 >>I don't get it. How did your mind get from prostate stimulation to domination? >His dominant boyfriend (real one or the one he fantasizes about - does not matter) loves to stimulate his prostate while fisting. Answering a non-sequiter, with a bigger non-sequiter. Great job buddy: I'm sure your parents must be proud. >>34500, let me tell you a secret: these dildoes don't know jack squat about good sex. Their minds are too entrenched in whatever crude conception their overlords wanted them to imagine sex ought to be, that they disregard and intentionally misinterpret their own feelings, all to serve their overlords. >>34518 >cum squirts or dribbles out without an orgasm Yeah. That's what's so dang sublime about it! Getting that continuous flow of sexual energy, without the pesky orgasm ruining the evening, what with it not letting the evening continue. Do you know how good it feels? The whole semen-flowing-through-the-pp Schick? I could do that forever. If I never made mistakes, like going too intensely that I orgasm, causing my libido to cease, I don't know if I'd have the time to write this, what with all the sublime pleasure I'd be feeling 24/7. >for ages and ages instead of getting the instant relief that men are used to. I don't know what weird soykaf your men are into, but we here --of whatever gender-- like to enjoy our sexytime.

>>34566 >I don't know what weird soykaf your men are into, but we here --of whatever gender-- like to enjoy our sexytime. I'm talking about biology. The male body doesn't want to edge for hours and hours. It wants to cum and then go away and do other stuff. And as a man you can orgasm whenever you want with just a few strokes. That's why prostrate stimulation is frustrating because you feel like your about to cum but can't get passed that point so the pressure to orgasm increases as your body gets more and more desperate for it. And that lack of control is what makes it feel submissive. > Do you know how good it feels? The whole semen-flowing-through-the-pp Schick? I could do that forever. If I never made mistakes, It's also possible that you have better toys than me.