Personal triumphs and victories pt 2 electric boogaloo

I’ve begun to exercise on a regular basis. I also kissed a girl for the first time in a while, and although the relationship didn’t develop much further I don’t care. It felt great. I hope you lainons are doing well, and to many more threads of this kind.

>>13074 Exercise is awesome. I always feel better on days that I run in the morning, and have more energy far later in the day. I hope you're doing well too!

I have been cycling everywhere as of late, and have discovered old friends in new ways. New dimensions to my relationship that have brought a certain degree of comfort, and a sense of satisfaction in the midst of a time of substantial anxiety. On the whole, I am very happy at the moment and glad that I have someone close to share this form I am working so hard on, with. Glad to be loved by someone, and glad to have someone I can be so close to, in such a long time.

>>13074 What exercises do you do? I think if you would like to share a brief description, that would satisfy my curiosity and keep the thread focused on personal achievements, without derailing into fitness. That being said, optimal biological function is the foundation of a joyful life. As for me, I am tidying up my room the Mari Kondo way. I am currently on the paper phase and it's crazy how much more sensible my room has become. I made a bookshelf out of two computer chassis and an old amplifier. Now that there are no books in my workdesk I can fill it up with frequently used items like cameras, laptops, business paperwork, keyboards, batteries, lenses, microphones, hard drives. This means my desk will be less dusty because I'll always be moving stuff around. The bookshelf also creates a smaller surface area for dust. Overall I'm optimistic about the future.

>>13078 Cardio for now. I need to lose some fat.

I got a girlfriend last week, she's really nice and I've been enjoying life a lot more lately. I met her at work while running an errand for another department, I'm really glad I stopped and asked her about where I needed to be. We now cycle to work together and take breaks together to drink coffee. She never had a boyfriend before yes, I confirmed it so we're both each others first in everything we do. I got her into Lord of the Rings and she's now reading the books before we watch the films together, I love that she's open to those sorts of suggestions. I also, on her recommendation, started reading Under the Dome after which we'll watch the series.

>>13085 I swear there was a version of under the dome on primetime television that starred Hank from breaking bad. No one else seems to remember it and it makes me think I might be a traveler from an alternate timeline. Do you two work closely together? When the relationship no longer meets either of your needs, will you still have to see each other every day?

>>13085 Is she fat?

>>13090 >I swear there was a version of under the dome on primetime television that starred Hank from breaking bad. No one else seems to remember it and it makes me think I might be a traveler from an alternate timeline. Some claim that alternate realities and timelines seem to mix and match all the time. I have seen so much it would not suprise me in the least. The border between the wired and the real world has long been broken. Even quantum physics says that theoretically by crossing the street we could end up on mars.

>>13107 Perhaps OP was dreaming of that show?

>>13085 I had the same thing. Wait until the endorphins of the first time emotional relationship wear off and then comment here again.

>>13140 The drudgery of existence sets in. But the honeymoon phase is fun for permavirgins like us.

>>13145 >>13140 I enjoy breakups. The alternative is terrible: two unhappy people feasting on eachother, like parasites. It's funny how we humans are so averse to letting go, despite the fact that releasing a grip requires less energy than holding on.

>>13146 What is wrong with you? You enjoy ending relationships?

>>13145 yeah, I dunno, it seems like that usually happens to other people rather than me. I always find it quite nice to be with someone.

>>13148 Yeah, I do. When I consider what actually happens in a break up it's a positive process: sometimes there just aren't enough resources between myself and a lover and the sensible thing to do is split and seek those things elsewhere. No use getting blue in the face over resources that don't exist.

>>13152 You must have a lot of lovers to find that fun.

really jealous and happy for you, at the same time. i'm 19 and i have never kissed a girl, no hope that it'll happen any further

>>13181 I was 19 when I got my first girlfriend. She was autistic and I was nervous, but I said fuarrrk it and went for it. Don’t become a wizard-grab life by the... you know.

When I got up to go to brunch this morning my motircycle had a flat tire. I went to the motorcycle store and was able to get a 10% discount plus some free parts. Disassembled the rear wheel, swapped out the tire and put it all back together again with a brand new chain. And it only took 6 hours.

>>13090 >Do you two work closely together? No, she works 2 floors above me. I'm in the IT department which is downstairs, so if the relationship ends we won't have to see each other again. >>13090 No, not particularly. She has a BMI of 22 which I think is a nice amount.

>>13090 Google agrees, as far as I can tell. Phew, I thought I'd been Berenstained again.

>>13074 >I kissed a girl for the first time in the while although the relationship didn't develop much further Consider yourself more fortunate than me, I have kissless virgin feels over here, it hurts not being able to experience what other people experience, I envy you guys so much.

TO ALL VIRGINS ITT Pussy aint all, women are more than a hole. That being said, women like to see initiative in men. Confidence every boy can fake, if you have initiative and self determination then woman will take notice and either reciprocate or deny. Don't make her feel like you're predatory or in attack mode or she will feel bad. Make her feel like it is all a low stake bet, a little dance with no real big repricussions and be really friendly and nice and you'll be aight. Protip, if you're nervous and anxious she will become that too, or suspicious and angry/dismissive. They can smell fear, don't let them. Just have self determination, goal in life and confidence that comes with failure. HEY, how do you get confident with women you might ask. Well, how do you get confident with anything? You practice it. You aren't confident of your bike driving skills? Practice. What your blockade is fear. Fear leads to no practice leads to no confidence leads to more fear. Just realize that failure is part of life. You will have a love of your life and she will break your fuarrrking heart. You might even love her and she might get hit by a bus while you to are walking over the street. Life is full of surprises like that. That don't ought to discourage you from taking a shot in the dark. Good luck boys, you'll need it.

>>13713 Maybe you would be more successful if you didn't jerk off with your tears.

>>13723 Well, I am successful, but not socially, I didn't mean to come off as attention seeking, but sorry if I came off as that, I just wanted to vent a little.

You know whats better than sex and kissing and carnal love lainons, the eternal love of the love between eternal souls of which all their carnality is simply an expression of. To love her not for her skin or eyes or butt or even temperament but for the pure forms her butt is just a symbol of. Not to bang for the pleasure of banging but for the source that represents itself as the banging and pleasure of it, her eternal soul and yours. Maybe you will not do the banging and kissing at all because you dont even need to. As true friends and companions that when you leave this world of the flesh your souls will leave hands held into spiritual bangland of forever kiss. what will knowing the best way to put your dick in her pussy do you if you die not knowing the soul bliss of staring into her eyes and speaking without speaking. or the ting in your heart when she is in trouble because you communicate and ask for help in immaterial languages. you cant take her butt to the afterlife. the union of a man and a women as bestest friendies is superior to that of the bf and gf. while you are cumming i am going on dream journeys and laughing at you who begs for the pussy while i have the eternal soulbond. anyways im gonna go smoke another bowl peace nerds and hang loose.

>>13713 You might give men a try. There is a lot to be said for men, but they are often overlooked for being incapable of bearing children and not always suited to the common standards of beauty. Personally, I like durable, strong, reliable things with relatively few complications. Men are not always as above, but I find they fit these descriptions more often than my female partners have. Kissing really is not much different...beards can make things interesting. No breasts (usually) but you get nice broad(sometimes) shoulders and the comfort of a strong embrace. Something deeply comforting about being surrounded by a bigger hairy man in my experience. Just be sure to get you and your partner tested before you get physical, and other that that men have almost no risk. Sure emotional attachment happens, but that is often desirable and you wont have any long term physical problems, like "OOPS KIDS". You will have an inherently better understanding of what makes a person of the same sex feel good physically, and more common talking points, so things are much more fluid. It is a lot easier to make a best friend of the same sex, then move to physical intimacy than play the usual guy chases girl game. Men don't often ask for commitment outright, or demand it unless it is in mutual agreement, so that is a plus. I wont say it makes sense for everyone, but there is definitely a case to be made for responsible same sex relations.

>>13740 Men are kind of like the old beat up van or truck you see in a pasture. If you take them as they are and make sure there is no rust, you might have yourself a faithful, fun, handy and reliable companion for many years to come. Or an unreliable, lazy heap of soykaf. Many women, especially in america are more like fancy sports cars or luxury sedans. Expensive car note, high insurance, expensive parts, unforseen recalls, and quite complicated under the hood. Lets not forget that they also make great thief magnets. Or if your lucky, they wont give you any problems and just what you are looking for. Status, a plush experience and maybe enough space for your kids.

>>13713 Also kind of cool with same sex relations. If you do decide to get committed, and find the right person for you, with the kind of crazy you can live with and good financial habits. On average same sex(especially male male) couples have higher per capita household income and better lifetime earnings and educational prospects. So, being gay may not make you rich, but it certainly seems to be a habit of wealthy folks. https://howmuch.net/articles/gay-straight-pay-gap https://www.treasury.gov/resource-center/tax-policy/tax-analysis/Documents/WP-108.pdf http://theconversation.com/factcheck-do-same-sex-couples-earn-29-more-16890

>>13742 To keep things on topic, I found a man recently. Been a great experience. Been steady for about 3 years now. We are talking about making it official, but neither of us is in a hurry, and we are both just getting into our own in our lives. A nice refuge for the two of us at the end of the day to fall back into each other's arms. Sometimes things get dicey when we cant agree on what to do about the rent, or the utilities, or what stock we want to buy, and so on. But, for the most part we have our own incomes and can decide for ourselves and then come to an agreement for the joint stuff. It has been great, and I think I found the kind of crazy I actually want to spend my life with.

>>13741 these are the stereotypical gender roles. They rarely get fulfilled in practice.

>>13740 I thought sexual orientation is not a choice.

>>13746 >>13745 Well I guess I have just been getting lucky. Or maybe stereotypes exist because many folks have shared experiences and create a common conception based on those experiences. In any case, I stand by what I have seen. Just being honest. >>13746 Sure it is. I actively choose to become intimate with a certain man. The same way I chose to become intimate with a woman some years ago. This I suppose is just my opinion, but it is all I really have to offer on the subject.

>>13740 >>13742 >>13743 I'm not gay so I'm definitely not going down that route, I would be lying to myself to pretend that I am gay, especially when I would do so just to get attention, and when you lie to yourself like that eventually you have to meet the truth in an unpleasant way.

>>13747 >Or maybe stereotypes exist because many folks have shared experiences and create a common conception based on those experiences. partly, but they're also huge simplifications. Like, how often do you meet someone who is exactly like a stereotype? Maybe one out of every five people, at most?

>>13747 >uses the word folks like a reddit fagg I knew you a gay

>>13750 aye. Not too many fit the mold perfectly, but they make a good common talking point. I am speaking from anecdote here, so have a grain of salt.

>>13749 It is your choice mang. I am just sharing my experience for people that might want to walk both sides of the line. You seemed to be longing for a intimate personal experience. I felt the need to let you know, that girls aint the only game in town.

I got a job interview. yeah I know, I don't have the job yet, but it feels great.

>>13753 Well, for me they are, and I'm not going to change that in a pretty sad attempt to get attention (not to say anything bad about you).

I learned how to differentiate without any tutoring and I have been able to solve the problems I have encountered so far. Now I am learning limits. Good for me?